@comfortlevelpodcast: AITA For Calling My Wife Selfish For Even Considering Taking a Job Across the Country and Trying to Uproot Our Family #aitareddit #redditstoriestok #podcastclip #aita #fyp
I'd love to hear her side. Bet he's leaving out a lot.
2025-10-11 02:53:36
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JoeBell :
Sounds like she sorta doesn’t want to be with her husband anymore.
2025-10-10 17:14:03
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Francisco Teran :
that sound like divorce but with no benefits for op...
2025-10-22 16:38:48
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🍃💨🇨🇦Sebrina🌙♋ :
ugh she needs to leave him
2025-10-22 07:24:52
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easilyshot01 :
how big the country are we talking 1-2 hr drive or 3-5 days.
2025-10-10 17:23:18
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bp :
"huge plus to her career"? what career, she didn't have a job up until she applied for this one....😳
2025-10-11 13:40:16
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Monica :
NTA because she is being selfish. She's thinking about herself and not how it's going to affect her children or her husband. She's not making a big salary that's going to be worth it. No paid relocation. Uprooting your kids is tough enough...I don't know sounds like she just wants a divorce. A new life. I get careers are important but at the expense of her whole family?! Yikes.
2025-10-10 19:12:29
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NurseJenesis🧿🪬 :
I feel her. It’s usually all about the man and man’s job. How dare she want something for herself!!! 🙄
2025-10-12 16:35:18
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tefee1 :
Weird he says it’s difficult to transfer his license? I have friends who have done this and it was literally just effort. YTA
2025-10-11 18:46:32
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Mechia D Williams 🏴☠️ :
Y’all are absolutely tripping. Wife can’t just make a decision like that? It’s not just about her, they have a family and husband has a career too. Y’all are so quick to make men the bad guy when he has very reasonable concerns. Relocation in children hits them hard too
2025-10-26 11:47:13
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Raegan :
She has felt invisible for a while and this “opportunity” makes her feel valuable and seen. He should celebrate it like a win, but then logically (together) recognize that its doesn’t pan out as a benefit for the family.
2025-10-10 19:36:51
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Beverly Suess :
Not enough details to have an opinion. Age of the kids - opportunities for her else where. As sounds like would not effect your career but just make inconvenient
2025-10-11 15:43:13
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simply_su :
Yall being on her side is so weird she’s not moving for a better option she’s literally choosing half pay to uproot her whole family is crazy. Did she even think what’s best for the kids ?
2025-10-11 09:01:14
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elizabeth.nolastname :
YTA. Wife puts her ambitions on hold so the husband can establish his career but when the wife wants to get back to work, it never happens cause of whatever XYZ excuse he can come up with. it's manipulation to keep her financially dependent on him so she can't ever feel comfortable to leave.
2025-10-12 04:50:50
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liz :
Clearly not a popular opinion from the comments but she’s not feeling heard, seen, or valued at home which is why she’d rather take the job and make the sacrifice. She does care about her family but also wants to care about herself.
2025-10-10 23:57:53
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TheShilohDawn :
The question was “Am I the AH for calling my wife selfish for EVEN CONSIDERING moving…” Yes. Everyone should feel safe to discuss options with their partner with equal consideration
2025-10-11 22:02:13
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Frances Botkin :
oh no she wants to leave
2025-10-10 20:26:37
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Carli Lintemuth :
Being he is the one telling the story- this feels to me like “I just have to finish med school and start my practice. Then I’ll support you to advance your career. Oh but wait- “
2025-10-11 02:17:36
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Efra :
If they arent offering a moving bonus, she hunted that job, not the opposite
2025-10-12 16:57:15
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D’Marie :
Wowzer I got questions! 1, does she even still want to be in this relationship? 2, currently not working, but has a career opportunity across the country?
2025-10-13 05:35:59
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the gold dipper :
funny how none of the commenters mentioned their children
2025-10-11 06:14:54
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1.Keeping.My.Heart :
Family is so much more important!
2025-10-10 17:17:15
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BlueJeanVibes :
NTA she’s not being realistic whatsoever! Nothing makes sense…
2025-10-11 19:40:19
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AnnWithoutAnE :
if he seems so much why does he not cover child care?
2025-10-11 09:08:38
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LtNyotaUhura :
NAH He has his career which she stayed home to support. Now the kids are older she wants her chance to work.
2025-10-22 20:43:41
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