@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights Being blocked by an avoidant doesn’t mean they don’t care. Avoidant attachment is about distance as safety, not rejection. Blocking is a way to calm their nervous system when emotions feel too intense. It’s not your fault, and it’s not proof of your unworthiness …it’s their coping pattern. Focus on protecting your peace and giving yourself the safety they couldn’t. #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #foryoupage❤️❤️ #blocked

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1donya1
💛 Donya💛 :
He blocked me on everything he will never unblock me or come back
2025-10-11 23:36:08
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luisflip93
Luis :
She unblocked me from TikTok. A week later i blocked her. Seeing her profile triggered my anxiety. Did i do right? Is it going to push her away?
2025-10-08 14:03:42
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blynn0215
Britni :
What if I blocked him before he could block me
2025-10-13 16:32:25
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keviorni
Kevioreline :
Oh it does mean something bc they went straight to date someone else
2025-10-13 19:04:49
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mythdetox
Myth-Detox :
I think different blocking mean out of mind out of sight. When out of sight they care create thier own stories to tell themselves for not to miss me
2025-10-08 14:48:24
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vaughno777
vaughno777 :
Right blocked on everything except email 🙄
2025-10-08 14:48:57
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ppuyo25
Wonderfulmaze :
Can you make a video about how long they took to reach out after unblocking? 🥹
2025-10-08 15:44:44
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user94566371
user23456 :
My ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago, she’s now seeing someone else and her pattern rn is blocking me/ unblocking me on ig, it’s been like 5-6 times already. Rn I’m unblocked
2025-10-08 14:37:45
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rooferjoe89
rooferjoe89 :
This really helps
2025-10-08 13:59:10
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paulinehennessey3
Pauline Hennessey :
blocked me on Facebook..but not messenger..he ran off with my so called friend
2025-10-09 14:16:07
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christinehoster
Christine Hoster :
It's been 10 months. he'shad me blocked. I finally deleted him from messenger so would quit checking if/when he unblocks me, giving myself false hope and continuing my dumb delusion. ...I should just give up 🙄
2025-10-08 19:39:56
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jackielamarichi
jackielamarichi :
There is difference between when the avoidant blocks you as supposed to when the anxious blocks you . The avoidant blocks for self protection and the anxious blocks does for self healing. I think it’s more final when the anxious blocks , because their intent is for different more mature reasons .
2025-10-08 21:31:43
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emily_ruballos19
Emily Ruballos :
He blocked me on everything for his current gf (who lives an hour away from us) so their relationship can workout
2025-10-08 18:51:52
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nonpareil61
nonpareil :
I blocked an ex because he wouldn’t leave me alone, and I’m happily dating someone else. Some people just won’t take no for an answer, and have to be blocked. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
2025-10-08 17:59:21
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kiki_debslife
Thundercat Kiki 😈 :
Yep phone blocked but I’m on his snap 😂😂😂
2025-10-13 20:04:59
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wizewolf999
WizeWolf999 :
What about when they don’t block you until you push so far trying to fix things?
2025-10-26 06:17:19
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metira77
metira :
It’s been 1 month that person that blocked me everywhere I think they will never unblock me but I don’t care 🤷‍♀
2025-10-10 19:15:05
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crazdenaz
Denae :
I took her off social media and she blocked me on TikTok. Although she blocks and reblocks me on here and there. She was also stalking my socials. The other night, I ran into her with her ex and blocked her now because she broke up with me because she “couldn’t handle a relationship “
2025-10-11 14:35:11
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_catalinaaa16
Catalina Arango :
He blocked me on Instagram, I’m pretty sure on WhatsApp, I keep getting this weird voice call message so I’m guessing he blocked my number two.. I miss him so much
2025-10-15 15:53:19
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mxdnightdrives
sammy :
He left me for someone else after a few years. We agreed to be civil and he said friends which I know is kind of a blow over, but he kept me added for a couple months. He randomly blocked me in the literal middle of the night (like 4 am) out of nowhere this weekend. What even is that? I didn’t even talk to him.
2025-10-08 20:50:26
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onetruepunk87
onetruepunk87 :
Blocked me on IG, Twitter, Threads, and Tumblr. Left Facebook and messenger open. Ignores my messages, so I stopped trying. She still watches my stories and is usually one of the first to view. 6.5 year relationship. Own a home together, have a pet dog, moved across the country with her because she wanted to be near her family. She went to work one day and texted she wasn't coming home, and is staying with her sister. That was 5 months ago. She's barely spoken to me since. Our 7 year anniversary would have been last weekend.
2025-10-09 23:36:35
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wozzadude
Warren Shales :
I’ve been blocked on all platforms since 28/6/25 after a break up 21/4/25. After sone brief attempts at a get together I went no contact 15/6.
2025-10-10 08:57:21
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xpuppyn
Puppy :
We were in a relationship. All was good. I respected, that he pulled away. Worked on my atachment style. Then out of nowhere he blocked me EVERYWHERE. No explanation. Non contact. Not even a break up. What did I do wrong? As if he hates me.
2025-10-11 01:26:40
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luckyducky1908
luckyducky1908 :
What if they don’t block you at all
2025-10-11 13:32:28
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mythdetox
Myth-Detox :
She has blocked me everywhere, we used to go to same gym,, for two months I stopped going to the same gym and went on radio silence. My question from tomorrow I planning to return to the same gym. Deep down I want reconciliation, will my return spike her nervous system. I plan not to chase just be in her orbit, she always present not to see I don’t try to engage either. Will she soften in 2-3 weeks
2025-10-08 14:46:44
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