Tiffani D| Beauty Creator
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Wednesday 08 October 2025 21:15:02 GMT
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Melika 🫶🏽 :
Baby is we related?! 🤣 This is my mom and at 44 we are JUST starting to get past that and I believe it’s only because my dad passed last year and my mom realized life is short and I’m all she got!
2025-10-09 15:11:46
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toricooperofficial :
Wow deep! Love this honesty fr fr. But yea that conditional love ain’t it
2025-10-09 18:15:26
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Kendalllllll❤️❤️ :
All facts!!!
2025-10-15 23:01:26
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Kee1 Mastery Shop :
I’m struggling with this with my 19 year old yes I want the best for her and I never want to see her fail but I think my problem is I want her to live her life the way I want her to versus letting her find her own path since she’s a young adult I’m still working on that lol
2025-10-09 00:37:12
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B 🌺 :
Oooooof FELT DEEP!! No contact with my parents for the 2nd time!
2025-10-09 00:53:42
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Tamara 💜 :
Girl you are speaking my language! No one talks about it! I feel guilty with the no contact with my mom, but it’s better this way.
2025-10-08 21:35:07
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E :
THIRTY EIGHT?? I thought you were 25😵💫
2025-10-13 21:04:43
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LaShonda LaShell :
Control is a form of witchcraft; which is an imp to narcissistic behavior. Denying anyone of their right to free will is the opposite of God. Draw your boundaries. You hold strong to them. Love, will value the relationship rather than manipulating you to be who they want you to be. REDEFINE the relationship.
2025-10-09 04:19:28
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bybrittcherry :
You are a great storyteller! I definitely can relate with feeling guilty or disappointed with having to go no contact. However, as an adult that can make sound decisions, sometimes you have to teach your parent(s) how to treat you.
2025-10-08 22:14:04
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Nikki G. :
This‼️‼️‼️I wish I could help, I’m still trying to figure it out my damn self smh..
2025-10-11 03:35:28
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LuvDesiMonique|Influencer|UGC :
Girl absolutely not. This is how I felt in high school and college from my mom. Nothing but conditional love. Getting angry when everything wasn’t about her. Had to work hard to rebuild that relationship when I had kids. Just lost my parents last year and I’m glad we got it together 💖
2025-10-09 02:14:51
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Lee | Beauty + ChitChat 🖤 :
I feel this! You just have to go for whatever it is you want and let them make the decision as to if they’ll keep showing up or not. Either way it’s THEIR decision and no longer on you. Easier said than done but possible. Sending you all the love 💕
2025-10-08 22:11:33
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TheBreiaShow | Content Creator :
No I’ve had this my whole life and I’m finally learning to do it on my own. Unfortunately it has made me hyper independent but live life for you. Love has no conditions
2025-10-08 22:26:06
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Xo Mariah Nicole💋 :
It’s our parents job to help us out. In no way shape or form should we ever make life heavier for them. We can’t control what our kids do. We can only raise them to feel free to make the choices they feel right about. The parents who want sabotage and control their kids should be loved at a distance. Your girls and your hubby is your family now and nothing should come between it. I understand they went thru a lot, but just like we gotta heal ourselves so do they. You shouldn’t feel guilty you are living for your kids now.
2025-10-08 22:20:08
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Allie Daniels :
Because they want to manipulate you and your decisions…if they can’t see that, then you have to choose yourself and your happiness. If they don’t love you because your decisions cater to YOUR happiness, then they’re the problem. I feel like the Latin and Black communities have that in common.
2025-10-08 22:18:26
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Wild Warrior Oracle :
Those who try to control others do not have control over their own lives. Our parents, lack emotional maturity and accountability for the hurt/pain or abus3 they have caused. It’s disrespectful to them if you mention those said things like girl, we ain’t doing that here bwahaha. I have a similar situation in the very beginning of my twenties and like you, it wasn’t anything that was detrimental to them or me, it was just a different path. But now my mom would choose to separate herself from me because I keep calling her out on why does she only choose to have a relationship with my first two kids and not the other two? Who are twins with another man. This year for Halloween she decided to make plans with my other child from the first dad, because my son will be four hours away in college. I’m like okay? And let it there and she circle jerks back to “I have a roommate, nobody can be inside to hang out and every Halloween we don’t enter her home or “hang out” because I know what type of person she is. 😂💀 I didn’t respond, for what? This makes her happy to do behind my back and she knows it hurts me because I said it did two years ago. They want us to please their every whim but the moment we say, when you say or do this, it hurts and they treat us as if we are dramatic or bad. 💀
2025-10-19 14:18:22
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MamitaPaige :
Have you been reading my diary 🫠😮💨🥴. But I’ve been a rebel! So that parent got use to my shenanigans.
2025-10-08 21:45:47
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