@mariahdhairl: Love is a choice more than it is a feelings. So if you choose love, you also have to choose the effort that goes into that choice. It’s not about teaching someone how to love you in the ways that resonate with you best… because sometimes that’s necessary. It’s about having to repeat yourself after you’ve told someone what you want and need. It’s about having to ask for the bare minimum when the bare minimum should be able to be expected. No one is perfect in a relationship…duh. But no one should have to ask for something as simple as flowers. If it gets to that point, it looses its value.
Advocating for the little things they did in the beginning to get you is exhausting😩
2025-10-10 12:26:42
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wouldntulike2know :
his FYP, not mine 😒🤦🏾♀️come on algorithm, get it right!
2025-10-11 10:53:35
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Jessjess :
omg well said
2025-10-26 03:01:09
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✞ 𝙺̷𝚎̷𝚝̷𝚌̷𝚑̷𝚞̷𝚙̷ ✞ :
Send this to his fyp 😭
2025-10-26 03:37:29
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Nita :
These are all the things they did to get you- why don’t they maintain it?
2025-10-10 02:01:50
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Imoni Star :
Think about it this way… maybe we’re not begging, rather teaching. How many of us are coming from broken homes with no role models. Relationships aren’t how they’re “supposed to be” because we’re essentially starting over. We need to stop expecting and start communicating and understanding.
2025-10-10 01:15:14
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Jessica Ruth :
I told him I just want to feel loved and desired. He has put even less effort in since then. divorce is on my 2026 bingo card
2025-10-12 02:54:12
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Sammy :
“You don’t even appreciate when I buy you flowers” meanwhile I dried and saved one from every bouquet he had given me. And oh yeah there’s about ten from the last 6 years.
2025-10-14 10:07:14
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AcaciaSolace :
I disagree. You can not expect your partner to just know what you want. It is your responsibility to. communicate your needs in any relationship romantic or otherwise. If you have guilt for receiving the things you have asked for then that is something to seek therapy for. Your partner is not responsible for your guilt or your inability or refusal to communicate clearly and directly. Their only responsibility is to create a safe environment for you to communicate and then make sure they are following through with those requests.
2025-10-10 00:34:49
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rashida_marriagemindset :
Give yourself the type of love and care you deserve before marriage and because this energy lives in you, you will know exactly what it looks like and feels like and you will be able to easily choose a man who will give you the same.. this from a happily married woman of 20 years ❤
2025-10-10 14:15:01
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Ariel Aaron Davis :
Then they hit you with the “nOtHiNg iS eVeR gOoD eNoUgH!!!”
2025-10-25 01:19:47
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dandan!! :
HIS FYP!!!
2025-10-20 06:29:15
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FeliciaV🙏🏾🇺🇸 :
I’m too tired
2025-10-13 16:12:33
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Shunna :
Can someone point out "how to avoid" part? Cause all I hear is the problem that needs help 🥲
2025-10-16 10:58:01
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Mixtli Gutierrez 🍉 :
my husband and i decided that tuesdays was a going out night, and wednesdays was a stay in night, we alternate who has what day that week and the one who plans the date, pays, and when we stay in the person planning the activities cooks dinner, idk if that makes sense but it works for us
2025-10-23 20:28:22
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Kai & Titan :
Stated perfectly 😔
2025-10-24 07:25:12
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Sarah :
and you better be doing the same
2025-10-11 19:25:58
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cakepop :
side note: where did you get this sweater frommm
2025-10-12 05:56:37
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Cocoaherman :
PLEASE make more of these
2025-10-23 02:43:45
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◇☆Sorin☆◇ :
preach
2025-10-09 20:08:31
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Woury M dia :
Thank you 😩
2025-10-11 02:34:17
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JetLagGina :
Girl I ain’t seen you on my fyp since the vacation videos! Did you make enough money to go?!
2025-10-20 20:22:10
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lavieverseau :
Silent repost
2025-10-17 20:55:35
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genatolpoi :
I’ve told. Asked, taught my husband so many times. He doesn’t do any of it. I’m so over it. If I didnt want companionship … I would’ve never gotten married. It is such a drag . Even though he’s kind his expectations are so unrealistic
2025-10-10 14:12:24
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Kelli :
Bars
2025-10-12 15:49:36
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