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boytjie.maintenance :
Triangulation…but also narcissistic mothers always choose their son over the daughter…the boy child is the golden child and the daughter is the scapegoat and is the Parentified child and is over burdened with responsibilities.
2025-10-10 05:46:08
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meekathecheetah 🇨🇦 :
Oh yes. My mother knew damn well both my sisters would get aggressive with her if she dared try to deal with conflict, or stand up for me. It was way easier for her to scapegoat me and turn a blind eye. “If you can’t get along with your sisters, that’s not my fault”
2025-10-10 02:22:52
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Shellee Hance :
Please make this download-able so I can share on my insta story.
2025-10-14 00:36:15
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SARON :
the youngest is always the golden child somehow
2025-10-13 05:32:54
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Amber86 :
I'm the scapegoat. And my little sister is the golden child
2025-10-12 19:32:12
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Tee :
My mother does this always. She is not going to change.
2025-10-13 16:46:39
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Kerry_Nyamz :
Triangulation - divide and rule tactics.
2025-10-10 04:10:56
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Clare Croft :
This is so sad, when you loose your relationship with siblings because of parents toxicity.
2025-10-14 10:12:12
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Geekygirl52 :
My mother does this often but doesn’t think she does anything wrong
2025-10-13 12:44:10
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PutTheCandleBack🕯️ :
An unhealthy parent can also scapegoat the healthy parent.
2025-10-11 17:32:07
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babyali :
I love your content so much
2025-10-10 02:09:05
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Nita :
My Mom put me in counseling when I was 11 because, well frankly, she hates me. But I specifically remember drawing a triangle like a pizza slice and saying this is my Mom and Sister (crust points) and here I am (tip point) I was always so emotionally intelligent because it was my burden to care for my own emotions at such a young age.
2025-10-12 15:10:30
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MemyselfandI :
im the scapegoat 😒 been no contact for 5 years now
2025-10-13 00:31:08
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Taylor💄✨ :
Curious, do you still talk to your parents? Been watching your content for a while and totally relate but never knew if you felt out with your parents too
2025-10-13 05:38:48
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gen.u1 :
I’m the scapegoat and end up being the mediator almost every time ugh 😫
2025-10-13 01:45:43
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FindYourFitNFit :
What book is the is from 💖
2025-10-13 16:46:24
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IamGrateful :
My mom triangulated my sister and I. My sister used to beat me up. My mom watched and sometimes even encouraged it and took turns with my sister. I am very confused about my relationship with my sister because I can now see that my sister was also my moms victim. She was fueled by my mom. My sister tries to maintain a relationship with me but its very difficult because there is so many years of resentment swept under the rug so our interactions are awkward. She doesnt know how to be towards me. I think now that shes a mom she regrets some of whst she did but she still has narcissistic tendencies.
2025-10-10 15:30:18
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Simnikiwe Majiki-Mahlangu :
It’s so bad with my hubby’s fam. My MIL does with me and my husband and she doesn’t even see anything wrong, she speaks ill of her son to me🙈
2025-10-14 05:55:40
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HeyHiHello :
Video aside, I kept thinking you were missing one of your Mickey Mouse ears, and I had to keep reminding myself it was just a mirror 😅
2025-10-10 03:00:28
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Apple User747692 :
My mom constantly tried this. Me my brothers and I have zero drama. We just screenshot and share anything she says about the other. We don’t believe anything unless it’s spoken directly to us
2025-10-13 07:36:03
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Geaux Queen :
This is my life right now.
2025-10-14 18:52:50
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laniyg29 :
I am the scapegoat and the golden child
2025-10-12 17:32:25
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asm ◡̈ :
i had no idea that there was a name for this. ever since i set those boundaries of not being the messenger i’ve felt so much more peaceful. i don’t have to harbor anyone’s problems with each other and i never had to. they will learn how to communicate with each other as long as i let them.
2025-10-14 00:33:51
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HatboxTC :
emotionally immature parents triangulate to assuage their own discomfort. mine did it i think because they are so conflict avoidant. and my narcissist sister really took it all to the next level.
2025-10-13 23:17:43
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