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Sarah F :
I read something about grief being like a ball bouncing around in a box. At first, the ball is the same size as the box, so it just hurts all the time. After a little while the box gets a little bigger and the ball gets a little smaller, but every time the ball bounces against the wall of the box, the grief hits you. As time goes on, the box gets bigger still and the ball gets smaller, but it's still there bouncing around and you will still feel the grief when it hits the box. Out of the blue. Then life puts other things in the way to stop the ball hitting the box, but it doesn't stop the ball all together, it just diverts it for a bit. I hope this makes as much sense as it possibly can. Sending you all so much love xx
2025-10-10 17:10:46
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C B 🍉🤍 :
This isn't just grief Charlotte, its a mother losing her child and that is in a whole league of its own. You're such a strong beautiful woman, navigating this new life with part of your soul missing. ❤
2025-10-10 16:47:12
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Miss G :
you need to have a good cry! just let it out lovely x🥰
2025-10-11 20:34:15
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lizzi0329 :
The fact Henrys photo is in the background is just beautiful 😔 🥹💚 I just want to give you a big hug ❤
2025-10-11 22:39:06
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Clan_Fan🏒 :
Grief isn’t a straight line. I work in Funeral care and we see it present in different ways with different families. Some even feel bad or guilty that they doing it “wrong” but that’s not a thing 💜
2025-10-10 16:46:30
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Lisa Hanley :
I got told it’s like being in a lift, you go up and down and you go up a a few levels. You get out spend some time there, then you get back in the lift you go down 6 floors and explore that floor and that might be crying or being angry and then you get back in the lift and go somewhere else. Just explore all the floors and do what you need to survive each day xx
2025-10-10 20:12:05
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Emma87 :
Grief is a circle not two people grieve the same I’m 6 year Down the line and it still hits me
2025-10-10 21:06:39
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Jo Butcher :
It’s a rollercoaster darl up down etc give yourself grace life sadly goes on and it’s normal to function and then fall etc xx
2025-10-10 17:38:14
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scottishlass90x :
child loss grief is something you can't even explain it's that hard 😞 no parent should ever have to lose there child sending you so much love from another child loss mum ❤
2025-10-10 17:13:39
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KittyKD :
There is no right or wrong way to grieve. You still have so much to deal with and being strong. Normal life can take over and then it hits you like a ton of bricks again. You do what you need to survive hun x
2025-10-10 16:58:17
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Beth Clare Hawkins :
Massive love and hugs to you and your family x
2025-10-10 16:51:18
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lesleylansdall :
Grief is very personal and different for every person, when you are doing normal day to day things you will forget for a short time the reality of losing your baby,that is your bodies way of coping otherwise I imagine you would just break down if you didn't distract yourself. you still need to live your life and it doesn't mean you arent heart broken or are forgetting Henry, and some days Im sure the tears won't stop. grieve how you need to for yourself and take care 💔❤️xxx
2025-10-10 23:00:06
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Emma 🍋 :
I totally get it. When my son died, one minute me and my husband were laughing at the tv and the next we were crying. I think we were trying to distract ourselves but it doesn’t last long and reality hits. Take your time and do what you need to do. Much love xx
2025-10-10 21:11:11
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Marie M :
Charlotte please just take each day at and time and be kind to yourself 🥰 im so sorry that you have lost henry 😔 he was one special little boy 💙💙
2025-10-10 16:48:46
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Natalieli5 :
we all with you so much ❤
2025-10-10 16:38:10
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Tinamaii94x :
I lost my daughter 2 years ago. I still go through them emotions, just be kind to yourself please xxx
2025-10-10 18:16:43
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Emma :
I know exactly how you feel im.the same i can be getting on with my day then bam it hits all over again 😭😭 xx
2025-10-10 19:20:09
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jess🌹 :
Go easy on yourself. there's no right or wrong way to grieve. You have so much love and support xxx ❤
2025-10-10 17:17:11
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Tasha Scott-Whittaker :
grieving a child is hard. I felt fine whilst planning my boys funeral I focused myself on spending the last of the time I could with him, y planning him the beautiful send off he deserved. after it was all over that's when it hit me. handing back his equipment, not having anything to focus on other than his 7m old brother. Theirs no right or wrong way you grieve and one min ur be fine the next it will hit u like a ton of bricks. it's not easy but we can't give up because now we're the ones to keep their memory alive xx
2025-10-10 18:30:56
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Crazy mum :
Sending you and Tom massive hugs ❤️there isn’t a proper way to grieve, it will come over you in waves. Your TikTok family love and support you and if we could help in any way we would ❤️❤
2025-10-10 17:06:45
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Sarah Billing133 :
Sending you so much love ❤️❤️❤
2025-10-10 16:37:17
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HANDY_hayleys creations :
Everyone is different bab it’s a roller coaster of emotions it never leaves you but it does get better sending u all my love xx
2025-10-10 16:38:55
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suew113 :
Big hugs hun xxx
2025-10-10 19:09:33
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Charlotte 💜 :
dont feel guilty for all the emotions, you give Henry and ava such a good life. The best you could, all the play times, lights, days out at the arcades and the sea life centre. ava will keep you going ❤
2025-10-10 21:28:21
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Rebeccamumof3boys :
🥺🥺🥺🥺 oh Charlotte I have not stopped thinking about you x
2025-10-13 16:14:18
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