@dadhugsforyoursou: How long are you going to wait for him to become better? How long until the good version of them turns up? How much more of yourself can you give to this person who’s not giving you anything back? That’s what that discomfort is that you feel. That’s the voice inside you that you’re ignoring. Listen to it. Big hug. X#CapCut
Broke up with him then he says he will change. Saying all the things I’ve wanted to hear. I don’t know whether to try or not I’m in complete decision paralysis
2025-10-11 09:15:16
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Emily Layton Rowe :
I cost me 29 years 😬
2025-10-12 21:25:08
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user2373675686845 :
Why only man 🙈???
2025-10-12 00:16:26
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Babs :
I gave him 32 years. Way too long.
2025-10-12 02:42:55
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Jen 🇮🇹 🏴🌱 :
Wasted 3 years.
2025-10-21 08:13:45
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msness6 :
I waited far too long. Know my worth now
2025-10-10 22:01:27
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LizzyMac :
Nearly 4 years on and off but I've stopped now, no more I'm worth so much more. Just hard but will keep going.
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2025-10-11 09:21:56
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Karis beth_K18 🍉🍉🇵🇸 :
waited nine. gotta wait another 7.
2025-10-11 00:01:09
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Angela :
I waited three years and then give up
2025-10-10 22:17:21
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Lisa B 🌷 :
Three and a half years 🙄 then gave up!
2025-10-10 22:24:45
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adam :
not much longer I do have my down days but I won't lay down am on the up
2025-10-10 17:03:21
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Debby :
Zero days for him , I’m not wasting my time on him ever again 💯
2025-10-11 00:08:44
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*K* :
It cost me 7 years..,
2025-10-10 18:14:41
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nadinecross78 :
How long do I take to grow up😳
2025-10-11 11:47:29
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Lalique007 :
You’re good. I’ve said it before but your voice will be internalised by lots of people and a helpful resource 👌🥰
2025-10-11 19:14:53
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Lizzzeee :
Good timing this message
2025-10-11 06:07:33
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Helen :
0 days
2025-10-10 20:01:32
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Nic :
So powerful
2025-10-10 18:40:35
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Fancy2025 :
Thanks. 👍
2025-10-10 17:47:18
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helena berry :
💯💯💯
2025-10-10 18:53:55
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cazwebster4 :
I did the work, I listened and now I’m free, go me
2025-10-11 21:15:10
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Just Some-Guy :
I just waited two years, before walking out. I ‘knew’ in my gut, this was inevitable two years ago … but hoped we’d turn a corner. We didn’t and it just got worse. In retrospect, I wished I’d gone earlier. If anyone is sitting on the same fence today, I’d encourage some serious reflection … and at the risk of sounding sycophantic, keep studying Harry’s posts. One of the best, most relevant, most helpful sites I’ve ever found, for those in (or recovering from) abusive relationships.
2025-10-10 21:17:47
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