Jason Pargin, author
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Robert Baillargeon :
I learned this from Evangelion. Those last two episodes were a trip.
2025-10-12 01:33:58
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Not_an_assassin :
I’ve always wanted to compare the models of myself from everyone’s heads, like a lineup of who’s closest to the real me lol
2025-10-12 01:43:28
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DangerMatsumoto :
Yup. This quote has always stuck with me, “We judge ourselves based on our intentions, but we judge others based on their actions”
2025-10-12 11:16:09
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DynamicToad :
I'm a very sarcastic person who makes a lot of dark dry jokes. And it only occurred to me recently (after your video on that 30 Rock episode) that I might have accidentally bullied people
2025-10-12 02:01:42
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Mick :
now my anxiety has anxiety
2025-10-12 01:40:01
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dizzbotbizzbot :
Do other people not spend most of their social time thinking about how the other person might be perceiving you based on their specific interactions with you? How do you know how to mask and code switch if you're not analyzing perception?
2025-10-12 01:51:24
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literally 1984 :
But doctor I AM the pizza monster
2025-10-12 14:56:36
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SplotsTheGhost :
Can I just stay in bed?
2025-10-12 02:35:03
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clewiee :
Multiple different people who have interacted with me on a daily basis have told me that I’m “always happy”. I’ve struggled with my mental health since I was a child and I very rarely feel “happy”. So sometimes people’s perceptions of you are kinder than your own which I think is nice.
2025-10-12 03:04:24
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sugarwoodjohnson :
I wear the same clothes to work every day. we had some out of town work and I changed when we were off. they didn't know who I was
2025-10-12 02:06:36
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Sierraaaaa🤷🏾♀️ :
What’s the real “you“? Who you think yourself to be or the impression you leave on others?
2025-10-12 03:31:12
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big robert :
I really like Erving Goffman’s theory of self-presentation, where each different social role has you subconsciously performing a different version of yourself (with parents, various friend groups, work, class, extended family, etc). Meanwhile your self when you’re alone is your “backstage” self. Everybody is performing these social roles 24/7, but only some people are self-aware of the “role” they have to perform for certain contexts. This is also why mixing your social groups can cause a lot of stress (e.g. inviting your childhood friends and your coworkers to your birthday), because your brain doesn’t know which role it should perform
2025-10-12 07:58:08
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missy ! :
isnt this like... obvious? or is it just an autistic coping mechanism to be hyperaware of this? im confused that this is being explained
2025-10-12 21:40:48
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Leigh :
I feel like most neurodivergent people know this intuitively because we are always masking who we really are, so we know whoever the other person thinks we are isn’t correct. I think that’s why most of us find interactions like that to be pointless, inauthentic, and exhausting.
2025-10-12 13:19:32
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Emily Maldonado :
I feel like i have always been acutely aware of this
2025-10-12 02:24:01
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Charless :
The lion doesn’t concern itself with the pizza monster in others heads
2025-10-12 14:10:39
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TheOldSchoolDK :
I took a MB personality test on an Apple computer as a kid, and thought it wasn’t very accurate. Then my MOM answered the questions for me, and it NAILED ME TO A T.
2025-10-12 02:58:37
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fetusfajitas :
“sometimes their mental image of you is more accurate than the mental image you have of yourself” they don’t know I’m secretly a cowboy 🤠
2025-10-12 04:15:59
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lentil :
“Shatter the illusion of the self. You are someone different to everyone who knows you.”
2025-10-12 06:01:14
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Nick Jacobs :
I’m pretty introverted. I thought this was just common sense
2025-10-12 05:43:49
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BlightyBet :
I did take the pizza
2025-10-12 07:47:25
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ladygoogles :
Wizard of Barge has this shirt that I got for my clinical psychologist husband that says: SHATTER THE ILLUSION OF SELF - YOU ARE A DIFFERENT PERSON TO EVERYONE YOU KNOW. I think about it all the time.
2025-10-12 02:42:46
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dennism406 :
i know i am the pizza monster tho
2025-10-12 01:38:02
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Amy :
This model of communication seems overly complicated for everyday conversations.
2025-10-12 01:30:49
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shikatanis panties :
Great. Now it's even worse
2025-10-13 00:20:10
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