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Ken :
“It wasn’t my intention to hurt you but I did and I’m sorry I did that” it’s really that easy and then something doesn’t get dragged out into something it doesn’t need to be
2025-10-14 19:05:10
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Zahleya 🌞 :
i call this intention vs impact
2025-10-17 04:13:16
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Nazzy2300 :
An apology without changed behavior is useless
2025-10-15 13:34:10
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bea! (sambergs version) 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
okay i get this but does this relate to people getting upset over things that litterally have NOTHING ZERO AT ALL to do with them..
2025-10-17 04:18:11
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Frygal Verdad :
I 10000% understand what you mean, but what do you do when the action you did or decision you made wasn't even about them and they choose to be offended or make it about them?
2025-10-14 16:03:27
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Fopdoodle :
Put it on their feed now
2025-10-13 13:10:43
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Alano :
I apologize and try to make things better, but if the person continues to throw it at me and tries to make me feel bad, then I just let it go and wish them well
2025-10-15 07:14:43
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jktheAllmighty :
Ngl, some folks feel hurt by things that shouldn’t matter fr
2025-10-13 21:23:13
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mak 🪐 :
i teach emotional intelligence/conflict resolution classes for my job; and i ALWAYS tell my clients that you can find one thing at least to apologize for, even if you feel like you did nothing wrong. simply saying “i’m sorry i hurt you” eases tension so fast
2025-10-13 12:35:10
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🌱 :
I always take accountability because it always feels better when victimizing myself! It’s literally so easy!
2025-10-13 22:25:16
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ChocolateBabe :
Taking accountability is great. It shows self awareness. I just cant stand when people think your ability to hold yourself accountable means that you're 100% at fault. Its even worse when they think you holding yourself accountable absolves them of doing the same. It annoys me. 😭
2025-10-14 18:50:52
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x.ryker666 :
hey so what about if you apologize, take full accountability (regardless of it being unintentional), but then they still wont stop pushing to make you feel guilty about it?
2025-10-14 18:08:57
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spliffnizzle :
I love this, thank you
2025-10-13 06:10:31
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Sean :
i recognize I hurt her so bad.
2025-10-15 18:16:45
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Spitterquitter :
Wrong fyp
2025-10-14 05:46:28
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Cyn :
This, but also some times people will gaslight you into thinking you’re a bad person when you are just simply existing and project their insecurities onto you to try to make you take responsibility for something they haven’t healed or grown from on their own. People be weaponizing this concept to the max, when there should be a responsibility to heal and stop putting that on the people around you.
2025-10-15 02:20:23
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quadro_root :
As someone who has done wrong to so many people, the easy route was victimizing myself because I can make every excuse out the book to ease the pain which I unfortunately took. The hard route was accepting the damage I caused and the people who will never trust me again, and rightfully so whilst using it as a learning experience to ensure it’ll never happen again whilst simultaneously never forgetting the consequences.
2025-10-14 11:31:52
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Safiyah ᥫ᭡ :
like, an apology is NOT the time to DEFEND yourself. simply take accountability & apologize, but somehow they end up making it about THEM.
2025-10-15 18:45:38
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cbskam :
I think people just need to be taught the difference between intent behind something and the actually thing they did. Alot of people including myself thought that if my intent was good then what I did was good even if the person didnt see it or it harmed them. It took time for me to understand that even things out of good intention can also be harmful
2025-10-14 15:24:56
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Ian Tusk :
People associate doing something wrong with their identity, they think their actions in isolation ARE them, so admitting something wrong means something is wrong with THEM. When really we all do fked shit, mistakes, own up to it and be better and move on
2025-10-15 02:26:06
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khalyah🧜♂️ :
it’s because people think apologizing = admitting you’re 100% in the wrong. so they either don’t apologize OR they over explain and/or focus on how that wasn’t their intention in fear of the other party taking it as proof that they did mean to hurt them. a majority of people in conflicts fight to be right, not to actually solve the issue at hand.
2025-10-14 04:13:06
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Mark :
I always take accountability, and I got into therapy realizing I had a bad anger/mean problem. I realized how bad the relationships were genuinely getting, and instead of communicating anything with me they LOST it and called ME the immature one lol, like I KNOW I messed up, but considering they refused to admit they were also causing issues, I chose to save my energy and leave, go outside, away from social media and touch some grass. Best decision tbh
2025-10-14 15:54:13
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Wigney spears :
And when the hurt feelings are coming from projection, what then?
2025-10-14 17:37:04
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Jeremy :
I think a lot of the time we expect our intentions to speak for us when our actions fall short, but that doesn’t really work. Impact > intention
2025-10-13 01:11:21
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Mr-C123 :
I’m guilty of that in my teen years but I try my best to make up for my past mistakes
2025-10-14 03:08:00
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