Jordan Tarver
Region: US
Monday 13 October 2025 19:02:39 GMT
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This life belongs to me and me only
2025-10-14 03:00:16
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Karrie Porter • Photographer :
lol except the people I’m pleasing are my clients whose happiness with my work is what pays the bills…if I lived life the way I wanted, I’d sleep til 8:40am, watch Downton while I sip my coffee, go ride my horse, have lunch with the girlies, catch a local theater show, and nap soundly in my hammock every afternoon and basically never answer my phone ever again. That doesn’t exactly work when the mortgage is due and I have employee salaries to cover. 😭😅
2025-10-18 08:06:49
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kyleigh :
I totally agree with this, but to an extent. You need to be making choices and taking certain actions to serve THE LORD. Not your friends, not your family, not your peers. God is the center of it all. And if you are someone who has not experienced him and does not have a religious background, that’s okay! He has a plan for all of us, regardless of your beliefs. Love you all and this video very much!!❤
2025-10-16 17:02:57
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tillytob :
Living for yourself isn’t selfish, it’s self-respect. Anyone who calls it “selfish” just got too comfortable with you sacrificing your own peace for their convenience and ease.
2025-10-15 18:11:39
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thedaily_tacocasaking :
Thank you, just ordered and will pass around to my four siblings. ❤️🩹
2025-10-17 05:24:55
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__..Kyle.__ :
You’re my new therapist
2025-10-14 11:39:45
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Drivintunes :
Now what’s the formula with little beings dependent on you for survival?
2025-10-16 01:51:59
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valentina :
thanks for the reminder king
2025-10-14 15:17:48
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Scott :
Half of the time, what we think others expect of us isn't even accurate anyways! We're just caught in the habit of hoping we are pleasing them. They're imperfect humans like everyone is.
2025-10-15 20:01:42
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Dan :
Like 1/3 of people who get married lol
2025-10-15 03:45:13
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Sashabomb :
I'd rather be a verb than a noun.
2025-10-15 05:39:41
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Emily Taylor 🧁 :
thats selfish and no parents can live this way
2025-10-15 21:54:34
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🌺 :
Amen brother.
2025-10-15 04:08:20
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Jenna :
u know this is how I should be thinking but my cute little brain can’t actually do it
2025-10-15 20:20:09
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ChiknPox :
I get this, but soon we will all be acting like boomers
2025-10-16 13:58:10
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Griselda🧢 :
I have and a lot of ppl want me 💀
2025-10-15 18:18:53
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lcubed_4444 :
Yes this has been what I’m working on!
2025-10-17 03:22:32
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ShimSham :
Need this
2025-10-16 00:50:39
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Gillian :
Wait this was my Sunday church session
2025-10-16 23:58:21
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WalkingTriggerWarning :
I mistook Self-respect and Selfishness which caused me to spiral a lot in the past. Once I took on the perspective where Selfishness wasn't involved to feel terrible about it and I began to think less if others to have respect for myself, by forgiving myself with Everything I didn't do before, because I put others in my life first before my own needs, I've liberated myself from all of that weight of grief and denial. I haven't looked back since.
2025-10-18 07:02:29
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noveybeautique :
So hard for a people pleaser like myself
2025-10-16 01:27:21
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Knitsewknit :
I feel like this is only possible if you don’t have kids or responsibilities to others who need us
2025-10-16 03:07:38
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Eve.Paće :
Deadass need to start living for myself; no longer a people pleaser!
2025-10-16 16:49:56
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Tina & Lily🐰 •Entrepreneur ☕️ :
It’s liberating. I’ve been doing this and it’s the best thing ever.
2025-10-16 15:27:32
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Elizabeth L :
I mean ok I’ll go live the way I prefer which is never to return home and travel 350 days per year. Will you let my kids know? 🙄
2025-10-16 03:40:14
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