Iim discouraged and don’t think im gonna figure this out in time. Maybe I should move to Europe.
2025-10-18 00:25:58
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Sauce :
Love the chase to first base!
2025-10-17 15:38:57
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❌️Derek Kain Gray❌️ :
I think it's because in Asian and European cultures, family is the #1 thing they often value. Of course a couple places are exceptions (Japan, UK, etc. ) but for the most part, connections like family are not shamed like they get here in the USA by a certain side/ group.
2025-10-18 01:03:02
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jrod773 :
They told us to stay away, so we are.
2025-10-17 20:19:54
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Mari Martinez :
I don’t wanna be approached by a man in the social and political climate. It’s not safe.
2025-10-17 23:00:49
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eric :
im happy to hear im not the only one experiencing this
2025-10-17 01:01:50
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quantum leap :
so universal Healthcare access to women's health services make people happy and more willing to engage with guys hmm who could have known ....
2025-10-17 11:09:16
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tex220 :
i haven't approached a woman in 11 years, i gave up in college
2025-10-16 19:26:11
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user388009744787 :
For 25 years we were told do not approach for any reason. You can't change it back overnight feminism won.
2025-10-15 00:34:19
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Johnny041369 :
I stopped approaching when ya'll clearly said do not approach us during the feminist and Me To movement. Not up to us to find out which ones like it.
2025-10-14 21:41:58
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Hvac.James :
Most men around late 30s 40 have quit dating. The product is rotten and we've spent a lot of time and effort building what we have.
2025-10-14 23:45:10
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nightelf_druid_ :
The eggshells men have had to step on have turned to glass and people are stepping off entirely
2025-10-15 13:51:03
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josh :
America has lost the plot of every book there is. Not surprised to hear people find kinder, more open folks abroad.
2025-10-14 22:01:06
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dixzaflopin :
I've been told I should pick up on the "obvious clues" shes putting out so that id know it was acceptable to approach them... as if im supposed to know that this stranger is either flirting with me or just being polite...
2025-10-15 02:03:15
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TheRealYoU7771 :
In Europe, it’s a lot easier to approach a woman than it is in the United States. Women are a lot more relaxed and comfortable in Europe.
2025-10-14 19:56:46
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Michael :
Both men and women are more suspicious of strangers today, but especially women. I remember approaching women when I was in college, and they would at least stop and interact for a minute. Now they see every man not as a person, but as a potential rapist.
2025-10-15 00:29:06
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Spec :
we are not trying anymore. its yall turn.
2025-10-15 10:38:04
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J. Benavides :
I think women here are stressed
2025-10-14 20:18:15
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user5254703918457 :
I lived in Germany for three years, just talking to women and people in general is such a fantastic experience.
2025-10-14 23:58:32
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jigsaw_puzzle_fan :
As some one who is disabled and watching from the outside of the mainstream I think it’s funny to see so many people take for granted all that they have and can do. Then complain how bad they got it. I have never been on a date, however watching normies bicker over petty issues when they have so much going for them is sad. Live life. Who cares what others think.
2025-10-16 13:30:52
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ash :
People are so online they can’t see people as people anymore. We are dehumanizing everyone the way people talk about men trying to approach women in the states. I really think it’s the phones. And when I’ve said that I enjoy (when I was single but I’m still polite now) being approached I’ve had women attack me. We are all screaming out for intimacy and attachment all while doing our best to push every opportunity for it away
2025-10-15 13:40:16
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Ashleigh Johnson :
I don’t mind that men approach me at all. What I do mind is if I say I’m not
2025-10-14 17:24:01
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ObjectExtinct :
we don't even have to be approaching either. going to stand in lines or sitting down on public transit gets disgusted eye rolls or mumbled "As If"s so its no surprise creatures of instinct are avoiding it
2025-10-14 22:42:10
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FattBoyDjinn :
I've been insulted for my height on approach enough to know I'm not making any moves.
2025-10-16 11:02:30
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Jonah Tran :
this sentiment only exists for the chronically online. the guys saying “you can’t approach women anymore the femenists won” probably don’t actually approach women irl. they’re scared of rejection and it’s easier to blame feminists on why they can’t talk to girls.
2025-10-15 06:50:11
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