@evilchelsmother: If the communication is continuously making matters worse and impacting the child/children in the family, it might be time to go no contact. #stepmomsoftiktok
I went to pick up my stepkids from their weekly hour supervised visit with their bio mom and my youngest said, “mom said she has to wait for us to leave because if she sees you she’s gonna beat you up” This is what she says during supervised visits to the kids!
2025-10-14 19:58:34
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Crystal Parson :
What they failed to realize is, I don’t HAVE to communicate. Just like I don’t have to take the disrespect and lack of boundaries. They have their dad and they all have phones.
2025-10-15 02:47:35
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dayton1234 :
So what happens now? I stopped having contact months ago and she continues to start problems constantly with him and drag both our names in every response
2025-10-16 21:50:52
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JuliaOswald :
I absolutely do not interact with biomom. She has threatened physical violence too many times. My husband barely communicates with her either… only when he has to
2025-10-16 16:01:01
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Sarah :
As someone in this situation leave it to the mum and dad. His partner is always over stepping and trying to insert herself and her needs when my partner has never said anything to the kids dad because he doesn’t need to, me and their dad are the parents and we got it. Sure make your own decisions at your house and on your time go for gold but don’t overstep into my time with my kids and big life decisions
2025-10-16 01:15:31
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Disney Mandrigues :
I went no contact almost 3 years ago, best decision I ever made
2025-10-15 15:00:53
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Allie Paige :
We've all been communicating GREAT, doing things together, all the things. Then she decided to call cps on us TWICE on things that were sooo blown out of proportion. Like what the hell, I thought we were mature adults who could communicate?!?
2025-10-14 23:20:49
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Kayla Coates :
I’ve never had contact with mom. It’s way more peaceful that way. Anything I need to be consulted on my husband just talks to me about it and then he talks to her.
2025-10-16 12:15:35
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alanacat00 :
It’s soo much more peaceful to go no contact with SM. The vitriol and hate that would spew out anytime we talked was just disgusting and my ex and I realized she was impacting the kids and it’s gotten so much better when we cut contact
2025-10-16 16:23:40
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Shelby Haack :
I never have had contact with bio mom she's too toxic and I don't have time or energy for any of that !
2025-10-15 01:42:29
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Lacey Shark 🦈 :
I tried coparenting. She keyed my car 😂 no contact for 2 years and life is amazing now! We’re all much happier! Yall can even go to events together. You don’t have to speak. Some people can’t handle the situations they put themselves in.
2025-10-16 09:58:09
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jessbug :
Amen ❤ that’s what I’m doing now
2025-10-17 03:57:13
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nell.chavz :
100% agree. There was a very long period of time where I had zero communication. And it was the best way to deal with where we were at at the time
2025-10-17 03:17:09
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Kris Jackson :
I prefer not even seeing her. It just infuriates me. I don’t want to engage and we keep our distance. The less her life affects mine the more peaceful I am. Her toxicity won’t shape our lives. He can keep shutting her up and our life will keep being amazing 💆♀
2025-10-15 11:53:39
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User18384928484 :
We’ve always been no contact. My hshand and I are a team when it comes to the kids but he’s on his own with bio mom lol
2025-10-16 21:46:39
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Lickidy666 :
Best thing I ever did
2025-10-16 20:14:20
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Nina :
I had hopes of a decent co-parenting relationship but I’m not going to be disrespected and told what to do. My boundaries are set for a reason and communication with a non-custodial adult in my children’s lives is a privilege.
2025-10-15 19:32:06
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Lexi🌈🌈 :
I would love go no contact with my baby daddy because he doesn’t take care of my twins
2025-10-15 15:57:38
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D Rose 13 :
That’s where I’m at. I refuse to be part of the problem and the kids didn’t ask to be in this.
2025-10-15 16:06:41
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Adamson20 :
I am completely no contact yet I'm the only one she complains about and wants to set rules for 🙄
2025-10-15 00:44:55
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Lela Marie :
Amen. 👏👏👏
2025-10-15 17:37:50
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toooshea :
True that
2025-10-14 22:26:33
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Noteasilyintimidated89 :
Funny part is, is the mum doesn't have to communicate with you, as technically you're not a parent, nor part of a court order ( unless exceptional circumstances which are rare), not vice-versa 😉As a SM never insisted to communicate with her , neither did I say "i co-parent, that was my husband s job". Now as a mum, I ll definitely not co-parent with his future partner as I didn't have a child with her, nor she has any rights or responsibilities over my child. If relationships will be cordial and we can have a chat, sure...in other circumstances, her nose will stay out of Everything. And that's a boundary not set only by myself, but by my ex husband too. We re the parents, that's it...the rest are just our partners.
2025-10-15 07:17:18
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p_dub_25 :
No contact for myself and my husband was the ONLY thing that saved our sanity and marriage. He would only allow contact via text and only about children. He would ignore the rest and she lost her mind for awhile. Years later and I can't even remember the last time we heard from her directly.
2025-10-18 15:18:55
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marandagilley872 :
👏👏👏👏👏👏
2025-10-14 21:26:43
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