apesfordana 🆘️🇺🇸 :
its not the approach, the hello, the compliment. while being disturbed in public is genuinely annoying, it's not that. we're on guard, and it's not easy to shift from that. and most don't want to. they want to do thier chore or hang out with thier company uninterrupted. so watch for the signs.. ear buds, zero eye contact, focused on stunting like reading or thier phone... all 🛑. a smile, some eye contact, maybe even just an outgoing vibe... approach, compliment, pass number/social, leave. the second you apply pressure for a response, the heavier the guard goes up. she rude? just walk away, don't comment or call it the rude. it's not about you regardless of your intentions. she deal with this all the time. and it's rarely safe.
2025-10-15 16:34:40