I don't know what meds she was on but sometimes she wouldn't be able to cross the finish line. I thought it was weird if she was on top since that was her favorite. If she had an extra difficult day at work or something, I would notice looking at her that her thoughts were somewhere else. So I decided to start with me on top and I would be extra aggressive. I would pull her hair and choke her (she loved choking). I would do that for a while and then let her get on top and then she would ring the bell. I found that my actions brought her to be mentally present in the moment away from negative feelings which I found to be the cure for that scenario.
I know that's not a decreased sensation answer but it's what I've experienced.
2025-10-17 18:04:33
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calibabs :
😂
2025-10-31 07:55:39
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kass :
I'm super medicated and I feel like I'm close and then I lose it. Toys definitely help and trying to keep out of your head.
2025-11-02 01:39:29
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master of ass :
it's all about context! make pleasure the goal. if you don't reach the "big O," no biggie! you've had pleasure and connection!!
2025-10-15 16:11:51
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Kelly-Marie Searl :
from my experience start yourself off while your partner is in the shower then im wet n ready to go more likely to finish
2025-10-15 16:20:04
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annie_nic :
Sometimes there are medications to take in addition to the medication causing the sexual side effects that make it better.
2025-10-22 23:54:26
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user220217036075 :
Finger in the brownie works pretty good
2025-10-15 16:47:59
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Bearlygrizzly :
Suction has been my best friend. It’s intimidating to some but most of the time it’s the only one that finishes the job for me.
2025-10-15 16:19:35
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laila 🇵🇸 :
If you’re also dealing with perimenopause at the same time, advocate for HRT. Losing estrogen can make the situation even more challenging.
2025-10-16 05:11:52
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Rebecca Cosgrove :
when I was on birth control I swore I was asexual because I just was not interested in sex at all, that said I would still do the deed with my partner rarely but sometimes and I think part of it is that you really have to be connected with the person because I could still get off with him it just was a little bit more difficult than it is now being off birth control I'm also on several antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications
2025-10-15 20:36:39
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Madeline Gregg :
Extended 4play and Vella
2025-10-15 16:51:16
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Samantha Brandenburg :
Pumps helped
2025-10-15 16:47:23
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