@confidentlyuna: Mindset shifts. The “game” is an illusion… and it was never designed for women to win. Patriarchal structures are not just systems of power, they’re psychological prisons. They make cages look like castles. They teach women to compete within boundaries drawn by men for men. They glorify conformity. Obedience. Self-doubt. From childhood, women are conditioned to measure their worth by how well they fit into a mans narrative. How appealing are you? How compliant? How submissive? How small? Real freedom begins when every woman realises she doesn’t have to play that game at all. Real freedom is the mindset shift from “I need to prove my value” to “my existence is the proof”. Patriarchy thrives on illusion…. the illusion that women’s power is dangerous. That independence is loneliness. That beauty equals worth. It’s a lie. The game is rigged. So stop playing. Shift your mindset, NOT your identity. Are you with me? 💭🫀Let’s talk about it… 💡@Your Favourite Cousin 💡@Your Favourite Cousin 💡@Your Favourite Cousin #mindsetshift #mindsetshifts mindset shift mindset shifts mindset shifts for women
and people look at me like i’m schizophrenic when i say engaging in straight relationships will always be transactional and you will never be truly known 😭
2025-10-16 17:03:30
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Missy :
Celibacy still the best option out of all those
2025-10-17 02:02:23
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Flowwithmya :
Just focus on yourself, follow your dreams, protect your energy, pray often, and let God control the narrative in your life
2025-10-16 20:53:10
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bigfinehoe :
The most insidious part of the patriarchy is OTHER women upholding it. Like women shaming other women for promiscuity is also upholding the patriarchy. Acting like "purity" is what makes you valuable. I could go on forever
2025-10-17 00:21:23
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crashoutgrl :
that’s why it’s always important for us to follow our dreams more
2025-10-16 11:56:54
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Your Favourite Cousin :
Mindset shifts. The “game” is an illusion… and it was never designed for women to win. Patriarchal structures are not just systems of power, they’re psychological prisons. They make cages look like castles. They teach women to compete within boundaries drawn
2025-10-15 22:04:38
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vixenmartemez :
My feminine rage is building to insurmountable heights and I can’t do anything about it
2025-10-17 03:32:11
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Kyrstyn :
yeah and that’s why they want women against other women so bad.
2025-10-16 19:44:02
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Melany 🌙💗 :
and as usual a black women speaking the truth!! 🤨💕💕 write a book girl!!
2025-10-18 04:00:28
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CowgirlBebop :
I realized at 35 that I needed to invest that time, energy and yes, money, into myself and I’m more fulfilled than ever
2025-10-16 17:44:26
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Luna Seila Timpani :
I know, right? I’ve stopped to perform for men long ago, I realized it was so toxic for my growth as a woman and for obvious reasons. When I started to perform for my ambitions and for my women? everything changed!
2025-11-24 17:07:20
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Ariana G. P. :
let THEM walk into your world, where YOU rule
2025-10-17 04:29:03
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gina :
stood up and applauded
2025-10-17 03:32:08
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Sa⚔️Turn :
I was thinking about this yesterday. No matter how far I move up the professional food chain, I’m still always going to be a woman….
2025-10-16 13:53:57
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Tiffany&Style :
100% true! but I’d argue… this is what dark femininity really means: not playing the game and being/doing what is authentic and fulfilling to her. Regardless of how it looks. 💕
2025-10-17 12:31:39
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Yulia :
Gave you a follow
2025-10-16 06:27:30
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bangsislay :
Having financial freeeom and being single and free to mingle is where it’s at 😭 man, I miss future me 🥺
2025-10-30 15:16:17
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karleeharrison :
A light bulb just came on in my brain
2025-10-16 16:35:31
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earth2all :
Finally. We’re learning! I hope this touches every woman’s phone!
2025-10-16 14:57:31
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Labrynth Music :
thanks for using my song <3
2025-10-17 02:15:46
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23clarice :
hell yeah
2025-11-23 23:58:46
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Savannah Wray :
This reminds me of a video I seen where they say women who decenter men are still centering men but note they just hate them. It’s so interesting how patriarchy has brain washed us
2025-10-16 17:44:07
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v :
Work.
2025-10-22 22:07:52
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Maddie_Stoltz :
This is beautiful
2025-10-16 04:52:02
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DisneyPrincessYzma :
💯 Such a freeing realization
2025-10-16 13:30:24
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