Koko T. 🇬🇭🥥🫧
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Ramya 🦋 :
Did you just say don’t give up ??? Avoidents make people lose their sanity, we too old for that.
2025-10-16 20:20:49
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meowwwmixx :
There’s no such thing as an avoidant. They will make it work with WHO they WANT to make it with
2025-10-17 00:47:53
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Karin 🦋🌸| IG karinjurisson :
But if he was leave my last message opened and after that its no contact, week for now ? I really like him, but this time I don't want to be the one who start conversation...
2025-10-21 07:06:32
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JennyBaby✨️🦋 :
How about the avoidants work on themselves for their partner???? why is it always the other way around? 😕 Im soo over it
2025-10-17 21:59:03
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Alaiyah 🫶🏾 :
I didn’t give up and got pushed away to the max!!!
2025-10-16 18:20:43
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Shayaaaa :
Girlllllllllllll I almost threw my phone seeing that title. If those Avoidants aren’t actively working on themselves PACK THEM UP.
2025-10-16 17:08:24
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heidi :
Literally. Dont go back to an avoidant unless they’re self aware and are healing
2025-10-17 22:51:23
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Mesha Weston :
Idk which type of avoidant you are but I’m dealing with a dismissive avoidant and this mf drives me insaneeeeeeeee. We ain’t talked since Sunday and I be telling him I’m never leaving but I swear if he don’t hit me up first we just ain’t talking 🤣😩 I usually chase him but nope!
2025-10-16 16:51:37
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SuperGirl :
but its traumatizing when we get ghosted by avoidants. we question our own worth its really hurtful 😢
2025-10-17 12:52:44
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Meg :
As a fearful avoidant/anxious attachment human I have a very serious question. Why is it that we are the ones who cater to y’all’s attachment style but there is not a reciprocation? To what end?
2025-10-17 16:47:35
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Poetic Injustice :
I feel like this is a good example of why people should walk away from them😂
2025-10-16 22:30:24
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Pablo :
GIRL NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT. WE ADULTS.
2025-10-22 13:31:11
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justahater444 :
It’s true tho a lot of avoidants will love you in limerence and when they figure out they have to actually keep that other person happy it exhausts them, and they leave you in the end .
2025-10-16 19:17:03
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Jenn :
He sabotaged the best thing and discarded me like I meant nothing. It’s crazy.
2025-10-16 18:16:21
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joshuastarks :
def the hardest attachment to empathesize w
2025-10-21 01:59:38
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Tebe Sephuma :
I’m telling you now they will destroy your life
2025-10-19 10:51:31
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MissEducation253 :
You can give an avoidant all the love and time in the world and they will waste your life and damage your nervous system
2025-10-16 23:08:51
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R'ielle :
Atp I’m ENTERTAINING my avoidant until I find better….. if he don’t do better by the time someone else do….. I’m gone😅it’s been a year + now and I’ve lessened my texting and calling, making plans…. Everything on his terms 😅 so leaving will be on my terms HELLLL
2025-10-16 20:18:24
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He self sabatoges all the time, as a secure leaning anxious person I just have to remind myself of two things he’s cares cause he’s still here, and be patient while he builds trust in my stability
2025-10-16 20:55:01
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tizzthizz :
As a recovering avoidant and someone that has dated avoidants, we also set the standard so high and then never tell the person what the standard is so we have an out 🙄 it’s exhausting
2025-10-16 22:25:52
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Bill :
Yeah when the avoidant literally shuts you out (when youre literally in a relationship) for 2 months straight and keep cancelling on you on your dates or seeing each other… idk. Give up fr
2025-10-17 21:17:15
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poledancingmermaid 🪬 :
It’s funny cause anxious attachments are the same way . But we crave closeness so instead y’all run away and destroy us once you catch feelings . This is why we say to avoid avoidants as to not get hurt . We try not to hurt others where as avoidants purposefully hurt others.
2025-10-16 19:04:33
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Divine :
And the up was gave 😂
2025-10-16 20:11:29
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Andre Offline :
You gave reasons to give up
2025-10-17 13:34:00
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YBG Boobii :
No one is avoidant for who they like lmao
2025-10-17 20:04:30
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