@lalison25: Adding my own dating app misery to the pool. Am I asking too much? The bar is in hell. #datingapps #onlinedating #fyp

Hom0 :

💯 Funny, it has to work both ways,

Chris Hemsworth :

Online dating is a total waste of time. Meet people face to face. Its a lot of work for not much success.

meep :

i don't think messaging first was the issue

user7130548574754 :

Respectfully, I disagree with the 'never message a guy first' vibe. With parties need to show initiative. If the other makes no effort, it shows you're simply not interested- and that's just not appealing.

Jemma :

See this is why I stopped using the apps because we all start playing games. That not messaging first is game playing whether you realise it or not. The apps make everyone toxic not just men

Pen :

They definitely are not lonley enough. It’s getting worse out there! 🫣

Anaru Drysdale :

nothing to do with being a single mother aye

Jake :

that guy sounds like a big red flag

Cee Cee :

I didn’t message first, went on an awesome date, he lovebombed me so hard after complaining about being lovebonbed in the past and then he unmatched me even after saying he can’t wait for a second date 😂

divinerakau :

I thought we all live off coffee, what does he mean he’s never had coffee. 😭😭

rocit2308 :

I would have gone with on training session I know single mum and me being single dad time is important his loss

Didsy 🕷️ :

I find that social media tells men one thing and tell women another especially in Australia. There are so many games that you have to apparently play. If you like someone, message them. Whether you are the forst to mesaage or not. I feel your pain but at the same time you dodged a bullet. And it’s not about men it’s a person thing not a gender thing. 🙏

Marshy79 :

Sounds like he is way too difficult…

md Khan :

Dom 🌟 :

Girl you know I'm the number 1 example of this, have A LOT of fun with no commitments 😉 and the right one will come unexpectedly 💓

Denise Chapman :

It wd not make much difference who msg first he wd do it anyway if its not goin his way hun xx

TheIslandTraveller :

Bumble? what’s your take on all the people who have met their partner by messaging first on there

🇦🇺Australia 🇦🇺 :

Nooooo lease message a man first . It’s ok. He’s weird because Who doesn’t like coffee!!!!! WT……. 🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣 It’s not because you messaged first. It’s because he wanted something else quickly 😳. Know your worth ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️red flag is coffee 🤣🤣🤣❤

Paul w L :

hlo

glitcheddddddd :

You're not asking too much but I think at this stage love will not be found via an app. It's cooked.

Verified💯Noble_Jaymes :

Hi 👋 I'm from Nigeria 🇳🇬

md Khan :

Hi madam

jimmy :

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤

geetee03 :

Same stories back the other way as women can be as difficult

ryanturbin :

It's become a big joke Who messages who first. Males messaging a girl first is also creating a ego issue. Nothing wrong with messaging a bloke first.