@jillian.turecki: You can’t function in relationships with this much uncertainty. #relationships #relationshipadvice #jillianturecki #findinglove #relationshipissues
It’s killing me. My husband is home but won’t cut of the person he cheating on me with. I know it. I’m freshly postpartum too but I know deep down he chooses her. He’s dead with me and this limbo is hell
2025-10-18 02:12:08
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Vanexa :
You are so right. My recent ex was emotionally unavailable and my nervous system felt it. I was constantly sick around him bubble guts, nausea, almost vomiting and I didn't know was going on. I know now, after he discarded me, that it was my nervous system screaming for help. Due to all of his intermittent reinforcement, I have a trauma bond on him. Working on myself in my EMDR sessions.
2025-10-17 21:56:12
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youmaycallmecolleen :
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE AVOIDANTS
2025-10-17 23:33:03
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Clare :
The toll is massive .. it almost broke me , it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done walking away but I see now how grave that was and I know I’ll never allow that again .
2025-10-17 23:59:23
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LADYSLIPPER :
Would that person be a DA?
2025-10-17 21:28:17
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Rambo Rosales :
Until you heal the original abandonment wound. 💜
2025-10-17 23:27:05
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ruthbfurman :
How do you mange this in early dating when they’re still deciding on you
2025-10-17 17:41:26
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Mick XT :
After 1&1/2 yrs of feeling not fully chosen I now look back and realise my body was sounding the alarm the whole time!
2025-10-17 19:57:10
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Marygg :
That’s how I feel sometimes. I love my partner, but we’ve been in a long-distance relationship for the past five years. Because of his job, he hasn’t been able to move to where I am, and he doesn’t want me to move to where he lives since we own a house together here. He comes to see me every month and stays for a week, which helps, but it’s still hard being apart so often. He says he eventually wants to move in, but I don’t want to keep living alone forever. Any advice please ❤
2025-10-17 22:17:52
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Vindaah :
Is this why I ended things today and for some reason I feel a huge relief. Like weight been lifted off of me
2025-10-18 03:55:54
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user5429684787046 :
My nervous system has been sounding the alarm for 48 years .
2025-10-18 02:53:58
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Des :
A one sided thingy mentally destroyed me
2025-10-17 17:45:50
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Hallana :
The Nervous System is the highest of intelligent faculties. Tuning into & listening to it the ultimate hallmark of healing 💚
2025-10-17 18:15:15
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Liz Schilling :
Perfectly explained 💯
2025-10-17 23:12:50
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🤍Noelle🤍 :
Ugh I needed this today. 😘😘😘
2025-10-17 17:06:41
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TT_83 :
I can’t believe I lived like this for so many years
2025-10-18 05:31:48
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Reyna Camz :
Needed this. Just gave up on two friends because I kept doubting if they care about me.
2025-10-18 03:12:47
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Em. :
its so true! my stomach issues were exacerbated x
2025-10-17 22:54:41
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goodgirlgonesavage :
Alarm sound crazy too, because its low-key silent like a dog whistle only you can hear it😂😂😂
2025-10-18 04:53:43
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AlmostPositive :
This video needs 1 million views
2025-10-18 06:32:06
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Eeyore :
Love your work, Jillian! 20 years of not being chosen by my wife. Multiple health issues later I finally moved out. It was awful.
2025-10-17 23:26:12
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@000_x9 :
I just sat quietly this morning realizing this and the sim qualities of 3 men I had in my life that I was crazy about, that were not as all in as me.
2025-10-17 18:25:25
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Robert :
Sandra bullock
2025-10-18 05:03:31
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Silvana Kruger :
Wish I knew this at 28 years old
2025-10-18 08:19:18
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leahquokka :
Ha!! For 20 yrs! So right!
2025-10-17 23:24:40
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