@mavereuer: not saying that you can’t tell people… just be careful with who you give this sort of info to 🫶 Products used: @Haus Labs foundation @Westman-Atelier contour @rhode skin blush
It’s true but so challenging to not speak on these topics until you learn those lessons 😭
2025-10-18 23:38:26
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Lilly :
The first point is so true! I used to tell ppl about my goals and their opinions would impact my own. I used to want to be a social worker but my family said so much I didn’t and I regret it
2025-10-18 21:05:31
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egiemig :
I learned the hard way, don’t tell anything at all. Keep it to yourself, even if you’re comfortable with them.
2025-10-20 05:20:47
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lxxyae :
How should I respond when someone directly asks me about how much I make? Especially coworkers (family too)
2025-10-19 23:22:02
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Susi🐅 :
What am I supposed to talk about tho genuanly
2025-10-18 20:34:14
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Brenda Haley 🤍✨ :
The older I get, the less I tell people. Seriously, these days the only people I really tell things are my husband and my mom, and THAT’S IT
2025-10-21 01:24:19
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ju :
keep private about your relationships and what you’ve experienced in them/not experienced (intimately). There are awful people out there that think they can be the ones to take that from you
2025-10-20 03:19:29
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Booboo :
I can’t even travel without others acting pissy and jealous
2025-10-20 02:50:52
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taki :
use to tell a friend at school about my family issues at times , next thing you know they told the whole grade and now everyone pitied me😭
2025-10-19 23:46:37
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shee 🕸 :
the last one is so CORRECT. cos i told my friend my weakness, and she turned it into a joke that something like attacking me
2025-10-26 08:28:08
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The Late Karl Bismark :
A rule of thumb for more peace of mind, is to only say what you dont mind being repeated behind your back.
2025-10-21 12:58:07
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lily :
saw this too late but im never telling anyone my business again
2025-10-20 19:54:41
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Lisa Marie :
How LONELY! What are y’all talking about with your girlfriends then?!?!?! 😳
2025-10-20 18:16:51
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DisneyPrincessYzma :
💯 I love that you’re emphasizing that *we don’t know how people will take it, even when we think we know them.* I know that I tend to overshare when I’m telling myself that I’m just being honest and “putting myself out there.” The problem is, no matter how earnest we are, not everyone around us is curious enough to seek clarity when they misunderstand us. They just make assumptions and, very often, there’s a backlash. Oversharing is like putting the cart before the horse, when it comes to building emotional trust and connection, I guess? Anyway thank you so much for these insights! You explain it so clearly.
2025-10-29 12:41:22
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WildflowerRevolution :
Hmm, I’d be concerned about this encouraging secrecy of FV. Women (trusted) need to talk with each other.
2025-10-19 10:13:13
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🤍 :
so heavy on money, family, fears and weakness problems LIKE EVER to anyone
2025-11-20 15:20:16
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Beeintuitive.00 :
if you can't tell someone something without it falling apart. drop them
2025-10-21 09:25:30
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Thehotpotato :
No literally, this is why I feel this world is a hell scape. I honestly don’t think you can trust anyone. We can only ever trust ourselves
2025-10-20 11:02:45
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honk :
what if I need advice and am broke
2025-10-19 21:11:22
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becky_danielle :
My own father used my fears and my weaknesses against me and that was really really hard
2025-10-20 03:23:39
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~furbraintw♡ :
So I really want to know how do I make close friends or maintain good communication with them without getting something like this away?
I'm an extremely undersharer and it's kinda hard to have conversations with someone who wants to know stuff about me. I also have complicated relationship with trust, so I totally get why you are saying this.
But do people create and maintain close and private relationships this way?
2025-10-20 17:39:44
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Jessica :
I would agree with all three of these.
2025-10-24 17:05:32
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