I fear I allowed my self to emotionally bond with my only two LTRs and now that those failed, I’m struggling to emotionally connect again.
2025-10-19 18:46:30
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Samuel Slices :
From a man’s perspective, you have to bring something to the table other than your looks
2025-10-19 07:58:23
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Lizzy :
i feel this so much.
2025-10-20 00:02:06
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kvshull :
Cora❤ I heard this saying “don’t look for firecrackers & fireworks. Look for a fireplace”; it’s exhausting & it is work, but it’s not a forever job. You will find your person. This is just the in between
2025-10-19 15:25:35
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The Fair Fox Studio :
depression steals your emotions:(
2025-10-19 05:00:17
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LoriMoulton :
You know who gives you sparks on a first date? Toxic love bombers. Don’t rule anyone out until after a few dates.
2025-10-19 13:46:01
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Kader Kartaoui :
I would highly recommend you don’t put some much pressure on trying to find that spark on the first date! Getting to know someone more may grow into fireworks 🎇
2025-10-20 00:01:40
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Nefferee :
Maybe the "spark" isn't what you need. Love builds, grows, and sustains. Give yourself time to truly know someone else to see if they are the person you're looking for.
2025-10-19 05:36:34
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Luckydayz :
I feel ya!🍀
2025-10-19 23:44:49
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Trish :
Sis start dating yourself. You gotta love yourself fully before dating. ❤❤❤
2025-10-19 15:00:12
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jackieautumn :
You’re just not emotionally ready to date yet. If you’re in a jaded headspace, it’s hard to be truly present
2025-10-19 04:57:28
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Sami :
She might be experiencing the paradox of choice
2025-10-19 23:48:42
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laura nelson :
🥺🥺 you are sparkly!!! you just need time. it’s okay to take a break!
2025-10-19 04:44:00
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User3487581796 :
❤️🩹😢 think of it as an opportunity to meet someone better than your ex and if you don’t feel sparks there’s
2025-10-19 06:09:46
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Ace :
You are a beautiful girl, just not in the right headspace right now. Take a break, decompress and don’t rush it. For dating to work, it has to be organic, natural and not forced and try to enter things without preconceived notions. Maybe it will help you.
2025-10-19 23:29:39
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Katie Whittington :
It’s also hard because you’re in a transitional state of life! It’s hard to show up as your best self that way
2025-10-19 16:08:03
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Eva :
I felt the exact same way. I really focused on being my best self - therapy, doing Barry’s fitness challenges, running, solo travel, quality time with family, doing hobbies I always had wanted to try and never had the chance, reading, focused on an abundant and growth mindset. As soon as I felt like the “best me” despite all the life challenges is when I met my now husband!!!
2025-10-19 05:37:32
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Tv :
Literally same
2025-10-19 05:24:36
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Thejb68.htx :
if you arent happy instead, you arent gonna find it in others. i have to learn that after 25yrs married
2025-10-19 16:14:40
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Unicorn :
Your putting to much pressure on yourself! Stop fixating on spark! Just have fun and live life! Do what you love and if you find love in a match, great! and if not at least you lived and did the things you loved! Is that so bad! If I can’t find a great love then I’m going to surround myself with lovely people and enjoy my life and I’m more than ok with that, life is a gift enjoy it!
2025-10-19 23:04:05
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Philip Fit :
let it happen organically, you can't force love, stay positive 🙏
2025-10-19 16:00:30
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ktea_on_the_coast :
You’re just not ready, it’s ok girl you have to go at your own pace. Give yourself grace and just take it easy. Try making friends with men, chemistry takes a while to build, and you can’t force it. It’ll come back, I’m also giving myself this pep talk at the same time. You’re not alone 💜
2025-10-19 23:40:06
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Dave Larrison 🇯🇲 🇲🇽 🇺🇸 :
I used to like meeting women and dating...after broken relationships and broken hearts, I have very little desire either. On the positive side, I enjoy my own company and my hobbies. I commiserate and also encourage you to find love for yourself.
2025-10-19 23:16:04
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realsimplejack :
Level up your skills, travel, start a business and do more interesting things. Bring that energy and enthusiasm into your conversations so you’re unique and inspiring. The key is to invest in yourself to shine and thrive. This mindset is scarce in today’s world.
2025-10-19 17:56:16
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Jessie Jay :
I used to meet plenty of women when I was surfing and or on lifts snowboarding. There’s no flame because there’s nothing on fire. Start doing fun hobbies and you’ll meet someone. Dates are boring and expensive and shallow.
2025-10-19 21:41:07
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