@marniegrundman: Would you wish your MIL a happy birthday when she treats you with disdain? Happy birthday for many of us is freely and happily given. For toxic, narcissistic and/or emotionally immature people it becomes a message and a weapon. #butshesyourmother #toxicmil #fyp #estranged
Nope. You don't need to get her anything. My SIL ignored us this year. We are now free to move on.
2025-10-21 08:28:06
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Cristina 💙 :
My integrity matters to me. So despite my mother sending saccharine cards throughout our 8-year estrangement, I don’t reciprocate. Disingenuous gift giving is ick.
2025-10-21 17:02:50
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The_BFD :
You’re such a beautiful human being.. you have had the scariest childhood and yet you have an emotional intelligence and such a good heart.. amazing
2025-10-21 20:19:19
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2005forthewin :
great advice!!! ❤️❤️❤️
2025-11-17 01:55:38
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anitae164 :
I was brought up to be the bigger person and turn the other cheek. Now I meet people at their level and match their energy.
2025-10-21 14:39:15
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Retired Music Lady :
For me, as soon as I went no contact, that was it. I’ve maintained it for close to a decade and I won’t break it regardless of the situation.
2025-10-21 13:07:46
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Coco Magallon :
How is she a Narc if she remembers everyone’s else birthday? That’s not Narc behavior. Narcs like being the center of attention and they are takers not givers!
2025-10-22 02:23:43
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🌻Flower-Child :
Id move on in peace. Im concerned about the husband siding w the Narc. They are so manipultive.
2025-10-21 10:39:58
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Holly Solis522 :
Who cares just get over it. Maybe she doesn’t feel comfortable saying HB to someone that she’s having problems with. Just leave it alone
2025-10-22 00:20:13
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The All Around Woman :
❤
2025-10-21 16:13:03
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