@kerrymcavoyphd: When we rush to analyze why the victim stayed, we unintentionally echo the abuser’s voice. Victim blaming doesn’t promote healing; it protects the abuser’s narrative. Understanding why comes later — only after safety, validation, and truth-telling. This stage of post-relationship reflection must never be the first step. First, we believe the survivor. Then, we rebuild their trust in themselves. #VictimBlaming #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaRecovery #ToxicRelationships #AbuseAwareness

Kerry McAvoy, PhD

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HoldingAbusersToAccount 🇨🇦 :

I agree. We need to be standing up for survivors and focusing our blame on the abuserts

2025-10-21 21:19:18

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2025-10-21 22:41:21

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2025-10-29 03:37:30

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2025-10-22 04:39:55

Mia 🧿 :

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2025-10-21 23:30:40

Sara :

they are con artists, no one would blame a victim of a scam, but if you are in a relationship with someone that abuses you (they use the same manipulation techniques) then it's your fault you let it happen 🤷🏼

2025-11-18 22:53:37

Gladys Montoya :

Years of loyalty ended when I discovered my husband's extramarital affair. Getting proof was the hardest part, but this @expert_kasen helped me clone his phone. I discovered the truth about his phone without his knowledge, without his knowledge. I could see all his messages and everything he was doing secretly in the dark.

2025-10-21 23:05:14

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