You don’t know what marriage is until you divorce. I wish more emphases was on picking the right partner but also loving / supporting yourself independently from any partner
2025-10-22 18:59:31
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sarahgomez096 :
This needs to go viral. Not enough young girls are having the hard conversations before getting married. Not enough young people know themselves well enough to commit for life. It’s more than the romance. Sure love is great, but it’s also a life, business, partner decision and that isn’t thought about enough.
2025-11-07 04:16:18
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user1610603565494 :
5 years… going through a divorce every word you say is true. It’s heartbreaking in life altering.
2025-10-23 13:45:16
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Life Lessons from Mom :
One & Done 🥰
2025-10-22 20:42:29
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MeggieB :
Can’t agree with this more.
2025-10-25 19:47:28
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oksana.books :
I disagree. I think the most important decision you can make is who you have children with. That doesn’t always have to be a husband. But everything else correct. Signed, married mid 30s woman.
2025-10-22 20:34:11
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KirstStro :
Divorce is hell and so expensive
2025-10-22 18:42:04
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August Witch :
Well said! Divorce can’t be explained to those who have never been through it. Holy shit is an understatement. Especially with kids.
2025-10-22 20:44:26
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Mandi :
OH! That’s cause it ruins everything. ANYWAYS
2025-10-23 12:57:44
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Blue Rose Micro Farm :
In it now. It’s hell. Never again.
2025-10-22 19:30:19
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tajin :
As a 53 year old women who has been married for 30 years and has 3 kids (now grown), I recommend discussing expectations regarding finances, domestic duties, and raising children before getting married to be sure you have the same expectations and goals. I’ve always worked even though I wanted to be a SAHM, because I needed to feel like I could leave and support my kids if something happened to my husband or our feelings for each other changed.
2025-10-22 22:47:05
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Burlap Creations by Kim Marie :
I’m not against marriage but,……Been there done that and would never marry again.
2025-10-25 01:45:43
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Allyson Stephens :
As a 41 year old married woman with 2 kids, you were so on point with this. Choose wisely girls. Take your time. It’s hard out here.
2025-10-22 19:20:48
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ny_opalite :
My divorce was brutalll I wished I had been better educated about what would be involved or at least what the processes would look like in the event that it didn’t work out. Got married again. This time looks pretty good. 8 years in we will see lol
2025-10-23 08:13:17
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Felicia :
I genuinely don’t understand how both of my parents divorced multiple times. My ex and I haven’t been together for years, but we’re still legally married because we just don’t have the resources to divorce. At this point I’m like, can I do this for 8 more years until my youngest hits 18? 🤣
2025-10-22 19:07:37
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AimeeSake :
Literally just had a conversation with a 23 year old last week about this topic.
2025-10-22 19:00:18
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SJ :
Preach!!!! Exactly…
2025-10-22 21:22:23
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Jen Hansen :
I just said this the other day!! So easy to get married and divorce is so complicated!!
2025-10-23 00:07:59
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Ashley Guittare :
Amen 🙏🏼
2025-10-23 12:53:45
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daphnerozandmaris :
This! I think some lessons need to be learned personally and while I wouldn’t have necessarily heeded every warning, I feel like it was mostly a zero heads up. Marriage is so glamorized, prenups are “unromantic” and at the end of the day, it’s a contract. Protecting yourself, being “picky” in every way. Do it. Wrong partner drains you!
2025-10-22 20:54:32
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Abby :
I’m currently laying in bed on a Thursday morning because my nervous system is completely shot from my divorce. It changed me for the worse. Doing everything I can now to get healthy, and I will! But I wish I had made a different choice years ago.
2025-10-23 13:26:36
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Miss Eileen :
So true! Married at 24 and he walked out at 44. Kids ages 9 and 16 at the time. It shaved years off my life. My advice to the young: live together at least 5 years before marriage. You never really know someone.
2025-10-25 14:38:52
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Jenna :
Allllll about this!!!! Get married, but do it wisely. Find the partner who supports and raises you up. Don’t overlook red flags disguised as orange or yellow ones. And prenups don’t have to just be for the rich and famous. It’s smart to have and makes a world of difference. I know my next marriage that I’ll have one
2025-10-23 15:39:55
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☀️Blanche + Co :
This!!!!!!!! I was left with nothing bc of the court system. No child support or anything. And my adrenal system almost failed lol. And so happy never have to deal with a man in my house again ha ha
2025-10-25 14:42:47
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