@scalingstories: u/dontlookatme__please I am getting married very soon, and my dad wants to memorialize my late sister during the wedding, and while he had a good relationship with her and idolizes her, I did not, and he does this at every family event we go to, and I’m torn because I don’t want him to mention her at all during what’s supposed to be a day about me. Plus one update. 0:00 Original Post 8:35 Update (4 Days Later) #scalingstories #minecraftparkour #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings
Does nobody finish these videos before commenting anymore?
2025-10-25 19:25:02
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Roo :
Losing a family member to addiction is always a complex grief. OP is allowed to want a wedding day all about herself but why make dad the officiant if this happens at every event?
2025-10-25 18:06:38
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Charlie :
I love a happy ending where honest and genuine communication wins out
2025-10-25 18:21:15
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✮ ⋆ * ⋆. :
Communication worked again!
2025-10-25 18:16:45
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OnomatopoeiaBoo :
scalingatories post?!
2025-10-25 19:17:39
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ToberMoon9 :
People saying this is a complex issue. Really don’t get the point. It’s her wedding. The day is about her, not her Sister.
2025-10-26 00:01:34
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RailDeath :
It’s his little girl. His daughter. Of course he will grieve her longer
2025-10-25 18:48:04
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MadameVexxed :
This was clearly a complicated matter and I’m happy the dad was able to let the happiness of the day shine. Hopefully he’s able to grieve properly and start looking forward one day.
2025-10-25 18:41:26
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Lucky/comms open :
can we not include the comments anymore they make the video too long and doesn't contribute much
2025-10-26 09:09:28
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auroraabutterfly :
Black ppl usually have a designated chair with a white rose for our family members that have left us. That’s if you love/miss that person though…..if op don’t even want the sister mentioned…dad pushing it is crazyyyy
2025-10-25 18:28:35
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Jade Young :
First
2025-10-25 18:01:20
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Piper :
I hate reading comments where no one watched the full video, everything worked out and everyone is still hating 🤦♀️😒
2025-10-25 18:30:56
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appl_bloss0m•🍎🌸• :
Once again communication saves the day ‼️‼
2025-10-27 04:06:37
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Bruh :
The answer is usually a long sit down chat. All these Reddit questions usually boil down to “how do I talk about x with y person.” You just do. Just state it plainly but kindly, and reserve a good chunk of time to hash everything out. Rip off the bandaid.
2025-10-25 18:34:43
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Misschadcok :
So glad this ended happily without someone getting petty or being ignorant, I've gotten really tired of those reddit stories
2025-10-25 21:53:30
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🤟🏻 :
C
2025-10-26 17:19:48
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zeyzey😻 :
13 seconds ago…this is becoming an obsession
2025-10-25 18:02:03
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Fukuchi :
glad dad came around in the end
2025-10-26 04:43:14
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Chronically Ria :
We had a small memorial table off to the side at our wedding. Framed pictures of our loved ones who had passed and their place card in front of their picture.
2025-10-26 23:41:54
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Tlotlego :
Yeah, dad should sit this one out.
2025-10-25 18:19:33
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Dominique :
he already messed up her birthday and was prepared to do that to her wedding even after she talked about how hard it was for her?! I'm glad he finally listened.
2025-10-25 21:32:49
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OddModdity :
I miss these videos without the top/relevant comments interrupting the story
2025-10-26 14:53:21
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Zaynie 🇮🇪 :
Oh, I was honestly expecting him to do it anyway even when asked not too.
2025-10-25 19:46:34
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gloriousunicorn :
It's not a complex issue at all. She shouldn't have asked the father in the first place.
2025-10-26 22:53:34
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Rachael 🍉 :
Your wedding, your way! Very simple❤
2025-10-25 22:42:29
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