@gr4pe_jelly0: I’m not saying people can’t be insecure, but it really bothers me when someone much skinnier than me says they think they’re fat. People can absolutely vent to me about insecurities or anything for that matter, but specifying that you’re insecure about your weight is very important instead of just saying—to me, a overweight person—that you’re “fat” when you’re clearly not #fyp#animatic

✨stars.ac🪐 :

“Pretty people can be insecure too” y’all don’t get it… feeling ugly and BE ugly is totally different.

sage 🍃 :

Why do they do this

•~Selina•~ :

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L :

if you're fat then... im obese

Jess🧿🏛️ :

My skinny friends say they’re fat right in front of me and I got so tired of it I just go “Dude shut up 🫩” and they stop HELP

Kassie :

"pretty people can be insecure too" you dont have to say it right infront of me

YOUNG ARTIST (COMMISSION OPEN :

Im underweight.. I wish I was normal weight.. I literally feel so extashusef easly and B12 and iron defiancy

𝚎𝚟𝚊𝚗 (𝚑𝚎/𝚑𝚒𝚖) :

people are missing the point. "but pretty girls can be insecure too!!!!!!!!!" yeah but if they think they are fat imagine how they think of you.

strangerhehe :

Body dysphoria isnt jsut for chubby people but skinny people, unhealthy people, and everyone between

C’💋 :

🌼~Sky~💙 :

My friend that is UNDERWEIGHT said that she's fat🥀

Nanao Somel 109 :

Esto sonará mal para algunos, pero; Si eres una persona insegura que toma como críticas las autocríticas ajenas de una persona igualmente insegura Pero con un cascarón diferente, no deberías seguir cerca de esa persona. Déjenme aclarar la razón; Tu sientes que esa persona se burla de ti con sus comentarios autocríticos y esto te hace sentir mal, Pero al decir cosas como "Yo estoy peor" "No digas tonterías yo estoy más gord0" y volver el comentario de la otra persona algo "personal", solo hace sentir igualmente incómodo y aveces hasta culpable al otro individuo, en si un daño constante y de ambas partes que ninguno nota hasta que es tarde. Por esto, si no puedes poner tu empatía sobre tus inseguridades y decir "ella no vive en mi mente, yo no vivo en la suya; vemos las cosas diferentes desde fuera, Pero vivimos lo mismo desde dentro.", pues por favor, por amor propio y amor por tus allegados sufren la misma incomodidad aún con un cascarón más "brillante", alejen se. (P.D: se que algunos "amigos" suelen usar esto como arma de doble filo, buscando halagos baratos, hacer sentir menos a sus amigos más vulnerables o hasta burlarse silenciosamente, Pero hay una gran diferencia entre quien quiere herir y quién está herido realmente, más cuando es mismo dolor, Pero entiendo que tristemente cuando un cascarón brilla demaciado desde afuera es difícil ver las grietas oscuras parecidas a las de uno mismo.)

★ Roz 💙🎸/🌕🐁 :

I hate the "b-b-but skinny people can struggle with body image too!!" BS, 'cause duh?? I do too but I don't go around making these negative comments out loud because its just INSENSITIVE. At the end of the day it has nothing to do with how you see yourself or how you actually look, its just about not being unnecessarily negative all the time 🤦

🍜🍡raymond🍡🍜 :

no bc if you are then what's that make me 😣..

Effen :

form their angle and their eyes they belive they look fat, the way someone looks at themself when they are incredibly insecure is almost a warp filter, it wouldn't be genuine to what they truly believe to say they were skinny, what would be a better way to vent about their feelings in this case for you?

🌸Izzy🌸 :

i always say I'm fat but deep down I know I'm not but that doesn't mean I wouldn't feel it. body dysmorphia is probably the worst pain to ever feel

𝖁𝖎𝖐𝖚𝖘𝖎𝖎𝖐 :

When a thin person next to me says that he is fat, it seems to me that he is just laughing at me and just wants to "subtly" joke about my excess weight🥲🤷🏼‍♀

☆ :

Я так устала,быть самой полной среди подруг.

Cherry :

It’s almost like we can’t see how we truly look? People always tell me I’m so skinny, but I can’t tell when I look in the mirror, I always look bigger. It’s not “insecurity”, it’s an illness.

Ace Schutlz :

"when your clearly not" some people can't see that...

smallgrowlingcreature :

i wanna give you the nicest hug cus you definitely deserve it

⋆˚꩜｡ :

Or the "Omg how did I lose 10kgs while I was trying to gain weight!!! OMG that's so silly" After I just talked about how much I wish to lose weight but can't because of my chronic illnesses

never :

I have a feeling it never goes away. I've been steadily losing weight for a while and despite moving down a size in clothes and people telling me that I've clearly lost weight, I always think I look bigger every time I check the mirror

𝐴𝑛𝑑𝑟𝑒𝑎 𝜗ৎ :

My friend, who has the perfect weight for her height, constantly complains to me that she is fat. 🫩🫩 I'm overweight because I gained during stress and due to hormonal imbalances. Of course, I'm losing weight, etc., but her words feel like a mockery.

mei🦇 :

People can feel they are fat.