@jjhowland: They don’t respect your time because you just keep GIVING it away💨 You keep saying yes to everyone else —and wondering why you feel so drained. Stop being a people pleaser. Because every “sure, I got it” when you’re exhausted, every “no worries” when it actually bothered you, every “I’ll handle it” when you’re already drowning—that’s not kindness. That’s self-betrayal. Real kindness has boundaries. Real peace requires NOs that protect your energy, time, and focus. The truth is, you teach people how to treat you by what you allow. Say no to the constant calls, the one-sided favors, the last-minute “can you just…” Say yes to your goals, your growth, your peace. When you stop performing for approval, you finally start living with purpose. 💯Follow @jjhowland for more straight-talk mindset shifts on boundaries, personal growth, discipline, and purpose-driven living. #mindset #motivation #jjhowland #viral #pourtoi

Jacob Howland

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Tuesday 28 October 2025 18:30:00 GMT