@thera_pissed_: I love the bird theory and all these videos are so fun to watch so pls keep it up TT #birdchallenge #birdtest #coupleschallenge #birdtheory #therapistsontiktok

🫸🌀🫷 RASENGAN! :

Yall should try the Job Application theory

IntoTheVoid90 :

im sick and tired of all these "Tests"

Alphawomantv :

at point of the conversation do you bring that up

Anthony :

so he’ll either engage or won’t? that sounds exactly like every conversation ever

My paint palette :

My husband wouldn’t pass this because I talk too much, I’d ignore myself too

Moreryy_ :

is their a job application theory

Sean :

TikTok trends are not couples therapy. Js

eepy :

Ts is stupid ✌💔

Andi Manass :

I had to ask myself if I would pass, like if my husband was like I saw a car today… I would probably get annoyed. So maybe I should work on that.

❤️‍🔥Vexira :

My husband FaceTimed me three times and he was so excited because there was a crow at his job site and he had to show me his new friend crow. That’s good right? He’s definitely a keeper lol

Rich T. :

What if he truly doesn't care about birds but is interested in many other things she says

Zvck :

user7279023802506 :

It’s all about communication. But this is for children.

Gamefreak :

Cishet? Do you mean regular relationship?

Caleb :

I saw a car today

🌙✨ :

if he said that to me I would be like ………and? I don’t have energy for these “tests” it’s toxic

Alexann Davis :

the bird that I saw outside.

VadersMyDad :

Well my wife will never start with I saw a bird she’ll be like guess what happened today I got off work unlocked the car door drove home locked the car door got out took two steps looked at the ground saw a bug then I took three more steps hopped over stick and looked up and saw a bird……

Sierra :

It’s really not that deep..

Anastasia Ma 🍉 :

I told him "I saw a bird today" he immediately looked at me and said playfully "you saw 2 birds, I also sent you a reel with a bird, so you saw 2 if them". Omg. Green or red flag?

Alisson :

It’s daft!!! Switch it around. If my partner said to me he saw a bird, I would probably giggle and say ‘that’s random’. It doesn’t mean I don’t care about what he’s telling me, it just means it’s random. Sorry 😬🤷🏻‍♀️I guess I’m a red flag 😂

Emily Savage :

Omg ...My husband engaged so thoroughly that I forgot I didn't really see a bird. We were looking up different birds online & decided that it was a (fake) California Scrub Jay. 😭

DeadNogginz :

at what point do these lil tests become the red flags themselves rather than just actually trying to engage in an actual conversation? Just coming up to someone and giving one detail makes it feel like theres more to come in their story or sentence. If you just tell me you saw a bird, im already assuming you've got more to say than just that. im about to start my conversations like "hey, I saw a wall" and see how well that goes.

Steph :

Hurts because I spent 20 years with everything I said being too unimportant for him to engage. There's men out here happy for their partners about seeing a bird. 🥺