@lindseycraven: They miss the time when you: -didn’t question their version of the story -carried what they wouldn’t name -made excuses for their harm and called survival and endurance love -thought loyalty meant staying silent -believed their pain mattered more than yours They miss the dynamic where they got to feel good, right, in control and unchallenged because you didn’t have the language, clarity or self-permission to name that they were harming you. #offeringifitsuseful #evillessons #smevillessons #lindseycraven #nocontact