@professorneil: Life is so much less confusing when you *ask* people to explain what they mean, rather than complain about what you *think* they mean

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girlofacertainsize
Jennifer Baier :
Is he sitting on the toliet?
2025-11-03 19:34:22
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ben.elling
Ben 🇨🇦 :
I'm having a tough time getting past "gets my skin boiling".
2025-11-03 19:38:31
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itscamillerae
itscamillerae :
Your video needs to go viral 👏🏾
2025-11-05 15:39:11
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erinfmcomedy
Erin FM :
Skin is a solid…it cannot boil…
2025-11-03 20:09:59
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river_fletch
River 📚 🇨🇦 :
As someone with ADHD it also means I don’t want to have to mask. I don’t want to have to pretend I’m neurotypical. My friend group is extremely small for this reason.
2025-11-03 20:15:47
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trisalink7
TrisaLink7🇨🇦 :
........ you mean i want my man to be my safe space? where I don't need to worry because being near him makes me calm down and not be more anxious?
2025-11-03 23:20:16
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jibaraentexas
JíbaraEnTexas :
For most of the girls I know it means not masking I cannot explain the trust it takes to be able to not mask & be completely yourself with someone
2025-11-03 20:43:28
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natureanimallover111
Animal Lover :
I think someone has his brain turned off too. And that gets my skin boiling. 😬
2025-11-05 18:53:48
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badwolfgirl86
badwolfgirl86 :
I call this... spending time with not people. anyone I have to mask with is people. but those of my friends and family that I can be completely myself with. they are not people. so I want to spend time with my not people
2025-11-05 00:34:36
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hawntedhouse
hawntedhouse :
“I want my life to be easier because of my man”
2025-11-03 21:28:47
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bleujs
Jessica :
I've never heard a woman say that😭
2025-11-03 21:29:23
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jortsvaljorts
Jorts Valjorts :
I've never heard anyone say that.
2025-11-04 02:57:56
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sharr_19700
sharr_19700 :
I've never said that in my whole life and I doubt any other women have! Give me a freaking break! 🙄
2025-11-03 21:30:30
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cpazzqsyoeq
Lou :
I have never heard a woman say that. And I’m a woman so I talk to a lot of other women. We don’t say that. What I think he means is we wanna be able to not be on constant high alert. Which we would love. It doesn’t happen often.
2025-11-04 03:23:59
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_panphae_
Phae :
I think another part of turning off brains is also knowing you won't be judged for making mistakes or doing something silly or just letting loose. You don't have to keep up an image like you do in public because that guy doesn't judge you like the public would
2025-11-03 22:45:10
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tara_pea
Tara :
The first time I hung out with one of my favourite guy friends, a couple drunk guys made a ruckus behind us. I just about jumped out of my skin and, used to being told I was overreacting, tried to laugh at myself. He didn’t notice what I said because he was too busy squaring up on them and deciding if they were a threat. They weren’t, he relaxed, and I have literally never felt so safe as when I’m with him. I’m always thinking a million miles a minute, but when we hang out, I know that he’s thinking and anticipating, too, not just about danger but about plans and routes and timing. I feel so calm with him because I know he’s thinking about this stuff, too, and as I result, I love going places with him and just hanging out
2025-11-03 21:08:11
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jodiebrookes2
Jodie Brookes :
Why’s he sitting on the toilet? 😳
2025-11-04 08:58:14
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draznin
Draznin :
“And of course listen to them when they talk” 😂😂😂 facts
2025-11-03 19:33:51
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user5817614232629
sharon :
Who says that?
2025-11-03 19:35:25
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summerreyncosplay
Summer :
It means I don't want to feel like I'm required to be management or cruise director every time I'm with someone. I just want to drop the mask and not have to be responsible for another person for a few hours.
2025-11-04 01:07:40
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vincentzesty
vincentzesty :
Men do that, too. Not all men. Not you, obviously. I would have to be the one on-guard if we were together. Which would be fine; you only listen to men when you need to find an opinion to disagree with for content.
2025-11-04 03:00:10
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desiree_jayne
Desiree_Jayne :
Oh as a man he completely understands the concept.
2025-11-05 22:42:32
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fireeyes952
FireEyes 🏳️‍🌈🇨🇦 :
I never have both headphones in. It’s become such a habit not being able to hear the ambient sound around me, I can’t even wear both at home anymore, it’s genuinely uncomfortable.
2025-11-03 20:05:40
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the_lady_luna
Lady_Luna :
I'm more reminded of the scene from shameless where Kevin says "All day all she does is make decisions 5 kids fing frank stop asking her what she needs just tell her." aka we'd like someone to take the reins for a bit and we can just relax.
2025-11-04 04:50:35
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user6073576816024
user6073576816024 :
If NT speech is predicated on subtext and pragmatic language structure then “want to turn my brain off” would simply be “I want to feel safe” from what I’ve noticed is that when NTs go into semantic language it’s usually because they got triggered so their logic center shuts down and the phrase is taken literally. Being triggered means it goes against his value system in some way…
2025-11-04 19:10:09
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