They want us to worship the parent that stayed. You can’t be traumatized by an absent parent 🤦🏽♀
2025-11-04 10:11:49
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NahaalTheMoonWatcher :
This. And so many ppl have this same complaint. “Why blame the parent that stayed” because she stayed and tried to DESTROY me
2025-11-04 04:25:42
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SadeMitch :
We need a back story because yall be complaining about stupid stuff 😩
2025-11-05 13:24:32
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Nelly :
Nah they are both to blame. His A* should have been there to protect you from her abuse. Had he been there, your mother would have not been able to ruin you.
2025-11-05 00:35:12
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Porkchop :
this is precisely why I feel many women need to think extremely hard before having children. most of us WILL end up single mothers, everything on the mother. if we are not equipped or OK with this- we should pass on having kids
2025-11-04 13:27:41
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11:11 :
💯% It is better to have NO PARENT than a NARCISSIST PARENT
2025-11-04 17:11:39
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xtina :
it took me years to unlearn everything that she made me become and now that i’m healed i just cant understand how you could treat a child like that. i’ll wonder about it until the day im gone
2025-11-05 19:24:16
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Toya | Pre-Law :
How is the parent who stayed blamed more than the one who abandoned you?
2025-11-05 02:19:01
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Dee :
My mom blamed ME because my dad and her had issues.. the audacity as if you couldn’t divorce him? Thankfully I have talked to her in two years
2025-11-04 11:37:59
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YouTube:SymoneandSeventh :
Wow I’ve never met someone with the same story as me! I’m no contact with both of them, but when it comes to my mom I’ll never look at her the same. You could’ve left me just like my dad did but you stayed and decided to hurt me purposely.
2025-11-05 21:51:25
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𝐹𝓇𝑜𝓈𝓉𝒾❆ :
My mother was very similar. My bio dad was an addict whom she CHOSE to be with. She grew up in a home with two parents, trips to Disney & love & kindness. I grew up with abuse, trauma & neglect. She should’ve given us up. I’m still in therapy for the trauma she caused.
2025-11-04 05:53:19
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joey__sands :
when my dad abandoned me he literally only abandoned me he kept a solid friendship with my mom and her siblings and their mutual friends ive never understood why they did that like they all knew they were actively hurting me
2025-11-04 13:57:23
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Yoki1 :
Wait. She really said you were the reason?! 🤯🤯🤯
2025-11-04 02:41:11
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JAZZMINE :
This. THIS is why I say a parent abandoning you? You can heal from. You can’t heal from a parent RUINING you. I’ll stand on this hill.
2025-11-05 20:42:34
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laura_i_rish :
Same, my father abandoned me with a psycho narcissist, who turned m sister into an even worse beast of a narcissist. So now I have zero family
2025-11-04 06:47:16
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Kimberly Rose :
Facts !!!! My dad did the same and I feel like my mom took it out on me ( she hates him) she did him dirty and I feel like both of them took their issues on each other out on me even with me turning 37 years old my parents are soooo damn toxic .
2025-11-04 04:32:40
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richinrealife | IG :
I experienced similar circumstances & have a genuine question. What you have rather her do? Give you up for adoption? Or give you to another family member? I ponder this too honestly I just feel she Ain had no business havin a baby in the first place
2025-11-05 03:14:46
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denissetries :
Girl my father and her where married he was gone most of the time (other countries). That lady ABUSED the ish out of us just because she wanted to. She was cruel, and kept birthing that man babies she didn’t want. 6 to be exact. We deserved great parents.
2025-11-04 05:46:37
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Notiktoksjustvibes :
Do we have the same mom!?
2025-11-05 04:04:22
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Neph :
I hate when people try to turn parental abuse/neglect into gender diaspora wars
2025-11-05 20:09:52
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blues :
Im sorry bb🥺🥺🥺💜💜💜
2025-11-04 01:09:05
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Aea :
Exactly. He wasn’t there to traumatise me she was and to this day she is not mature enough to apologise and pretty much admitted to hating me….i whooped her azz in the McDonalds drive thru and I’ll do it again!!!! Not that weak little kid anymore bichacho
2025-11-05 04:38:34
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Secret Squirrel :
That lady is blocked. I deserve to build the peace she never afforded me
2025-11-04 21:53:26
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Nesie Lakya :
I love my father !! But my mom definitely ruined me ! But swear she “did her best” girl no you didn’t !
2025-11-05 04:01:53
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Max :
I'm always going to be bitter about ppl who try to tell me how to respond to the person who was actively, purposefully and continuously abusing me. Like bc they were there, they had MULTIPLE opportunities to do better and chose hell instead
2025-11-04 16:29:37
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