Psychology didn’t do it - social media perpetuated the idea of ‘the self’ in the name of empowerment while completely denying that we all need a sense community to thrive. A lot of the motivational talks are centered around ‘me me me’ while dismissing the need for ‘repair and reconnect’. The isolation works for the capitalist system. Isolated individuals will find other means to cope, distract or feel relevant.
2025-11-08 16:44:35
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live your mistakes :
absolutley. in no way does that mean allow abuse but prioritising ones own self over having any consideration of negative affect to others
2025-11-08 19:26:05
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Don_bonbon💯🔥’s :
People misinterpret psychology in that aspect, just like they do on boundaries as well. The need to understand yourself is crucial to be able to give back to others. pour in your cup to pour back to others.
2025-11-15 03:27:46
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Polarity_Power_Project :
It affects intimate relationships, friendships and the work place. I miss the good old days sometimes.
2025-11-08 14:36:59
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user8176059011416 :
true
2025-11-08 19:38:57
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Masu’d Dasoo مسعود داسو :
Thank you for this. I call this generation “Generation Me”
2025-11-10 20:18:47
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Gaz💐Kauser :
Yep “Generation me!” Forget everyone else !!
2025-11-11 11:36:36
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Wayne :
Individualism is ok, but it must be balanced with self-control.
2025-11-08 23:50:09
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NoAveragePilot :
😎 this is a wonderful woman
2025-11-12 10:58:25
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Jen | Sociologist :
Yo. Thats not psychology, thats capitalism and neoliberalism. Yours, a sociologist
2025-11-11 18:08:30
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Liam :
I agree with you that people are putting themselves on the pedastal for to much now and lack awareness and forgiveness. She is so right 🙏🫶🏻
2025-11-11 19:16:58
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r.a.falconer :
get a sense of self, love.
2025-11-09 02:49:42
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AngusBeefBootyFlakes3000 :
And caring for others is the new virus
2025-11-09 00:27:58
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shade kim shade :
That “trauma” stuff doesn’t even exist where I come from
2025-11-12 06:45:27
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Shnyar... :
Exactly, i wish i could make this video as the title of today's society
2025-11-08 20:09:54
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Nichole :
so, are you saying we shouldn't strive to have peace in our life?
I'm getting out of a relationship because he doesn't ever bring me peace, but I should stay for his sake?
2025-11-08 16:12:34
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🌹🪴yhara 🌹❤️lhen🌹 :
we try to understand others we give chance many Times we try to communicate untill we keep strong boundaries because you can't see there change.. so u can't blame people choosing there self if they know they try to too much to understand some one
2025-11-08 16:15:05
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Young 🦁 😎 💟💟 :
Exactly
2025-11-15 13:31:41
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Polla :
im not debating on my peace.
2025-11-11 11:28:33
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vadudanur :
sooo true
2025-11-09 20:32:34
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Malikah | ملكة 🍉🇿🇦 :
vaaaaalid, we are so consumed by what WE want and what WE need. The consideration of the next person doesn't even matter anymore.🥺
2025-11-08 16:23:51
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KingZikhali :
This woman oozes wisdom ❤️
2025-11-11 05:29:19
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MelMel538 :
I've spent my entire life catering to other ppls desires, their wants and needs that I've abandoned myself. I've buried my own wants and needs and it is all consuming. I left a 5 year relationship cuz I realized I wasn't being treated right. it wasn't exactly going anywhere either, even tho we were engaged. I didn't choose myself in any malicious way. I was terrified of leaving and hurting him. we both hurt. he's happier now, I'm happier now. you grow thru pain, thru being uncomfortable with change. but it's good. If focusing on yourself affords another person the chance to find their own happiness then so be it. 🤷♀️I'm sick of abandoning myself
2025-11-13 18:54:58
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Raja Heerooa :
100% agree 🙏✨💐
2025-11-09 14:19:33
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