my only gripe is calling it cheating. if you want to set that boundary, thats normal, but its not a normal definition of cheating. they arent engaging in a romantic/sexual relationship by parasocially watching videos. chat rooms, video calls, though? absolutely.
2025-11-09 14:50:29
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Shaquille O'Neal :
its not cheating. its a preference.
2025-11-10 04:50:10
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okiedokie12 :
I mean if it was agreed on at the beginning it shouldn’t be that hard to leave. It would be one thing if she made that boundary a year into the relationship.
2025-12-05 16:25:22
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BannedbytheCCP :
There is no scenario where viewing something is cheating. Hope this helps.
2025-11-24 16:02:01
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👻namelessghoulcos👻 :
well its not cheating as someone who was cheated on
2025-11-09 15:40:24
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Comic Dweller :
People are getting kind of hung up on the common social use of a word, rather than its intent. It’s called “cheating” because you’re operating outside the bounds of a relationship. In this situation one of the parties has identified the intake of pornography as someone that breaks the confines of their comfort with the exclusivity and intimacy of their relationship. The experience of a third party isn’t the issue with cheating, it’s the breaking of the covenant between two people, almost always within the discussion of intimacy and exclusivity. So in this way, regardless of if pornography is a living or experiencing party is irrelevant when it still breaks its way into an exclusive intimate relationship. The person has defined that the relationship is set between the two people, and cannot include stimulation of that kind. And most people don’t view the boundaries of intimacy as exclusively who experiences their partner, but rather who their partner experiences. And in this instance the secondary person is still experiencing a person other than the person they are committed to.
2025-11-11 11:20:46
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Papal Legate Poopé :
Mfs can’t fathom having principles
2025-11-09 17:52:19
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TypicalBoot :
You broke a spoken rule, trust has been broken. It may not be cheating to its fullest extent but a wrong was done.
2025-11-10 07:44:11
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Anna :
dont you let them ragebait you jesyka✊
2025-11-09 05:56:00
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joncoltman2 :
Nothing wrong with that if that’s something you talked about and said I don’t feel comfortable and they do it anyways you definitely are not the problem
2025-11-09 15:57:37
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5D :
It think people are arguing technicalities. Is not cheating but is disrespectful given that emotions were given. Some people use that excuse to manipulate their spouses as well. At some point one has to figure out if the incompatibility is a problem.
2025-11-09 17:20:08
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CerealBro1 :
See my thing is that while I don’t agree with your take on it, I don’t think you’re the problem. You communicated that wholly before hand, and the guy willingly accepted those terms before beginning to date you, only to turn around and betray you. Your feelings are valid, you’re not the problem, the guy is the problem
2025-11-09 16:17:05
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基拉 :
Exactly. If you don’t wanna partake in watching that stuff then keep those boundaries and find someone who have the same boundaries. If you want to, then find someone who’s ALSO okay with it idk what’s so confusing 😭🙏🏻
2025-11-10 01:17:22
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KingKobald :
Boundaries are supposed to be respected, it can definitely be considered cheating but like you said everyone is different we just gotta respect our partner's boundaries and communicate those boundaries.
2025-11-10 13:58:47
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Terry :
I had to go look to see what the topic was. I do agree that if you agree to something then go against it, then it’s a problem. Whether it’s “cheating” is debatable, but that part is irrelevant.
2025-11-10 12:30:17
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darth.vaylyn :
I'm on your side ma'am, I have the same boundary.
2025-11-09 18:39:49
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KronosDevoured :
I don't get how this is controversial.
2025-11-10 13:30:08
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Silly Billy 🎧✨️📼 :
even if it "isn't cheating" it's still important to respect your partner's boundaries
2025-11-10 04:55:38
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samtaylorsto :
Does it also include regular mainstream movies like Fast times at Ridgemount High or Disney's Pocahontas?
2025-11-09 18:18:58
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Damian_is_my_name :
everybody has a preference in relationships if it is stated ahead of time before the relationship starts or discussed at some point in the relationship then it's a boundary. personally I don't consider 🌽 cheating but that's my personal preference and reality in my own relationships. it's okay to consider it cheating when you have it set in place as such.
2025-11-09 20:20:25
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ominosu :
Everyone has different boundaries. I wouldn’t consider cheating but people with different boundaries are just as valid
2025-11-10 05:07:21
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Moo-ve :
If you and your partner define what cheating is, it’s cheating. Cheating can be physical, emotional, financial, or other things as well.
2025-11-10 00:35:11
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aaronstewart420 :
you are the problem
2025-11-09 18:11:38
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TheWitchyLamb :
valid. Boundaries are healthy.
2025-11-09 15:04:46
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tacosarefree :
Am I milked properly? If so we’re good 💪😂😭
2025-11-09 17:29:25
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