Dont you know if the thing you said is good or bad?
2025-11-11 20:51:33
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han ꒰ᐢ. .ᐢ꒱ :
unfortunately intentions don't negate the impact of what you said or did. you can have great intentions and it can still hurt people. it's not black and white
2025-11-10 23:17:55
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miss.femmefatale :
or when they immediately get defensive & disrespectful instead of trying to come to a resolution
2025-11-10 17:08:31
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milliondollar.yagi✰ :
Just bc you don’t have “bad intentions” doesn’t dismiss the impact of your actions, nor does it dismiss if you knew how those actions could effect others, there’s a different between intentionally and wanting to hurt someone, and knowing you could potentially do it and still doing it, they both fall short and come down to the same point of inconsideration.
2025-11-11 20:25:22
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E Y E S A C K :
Pattern of behaviors matter though
2025-11-11 09:35:27
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Acacia :
This is a trauma response and I’m working on it😭🥲
2025-11-11 15:58:38
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em :
no bc my ex best friend of 10 years suddenly thought I was so evil with no basis whatsoever and didn’t even try to hear my side out because it went against the narrative she already formed of me in her head
2025-11-11 14:10:37
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💫hazypurplestars💫 :
if I have a trauma based reaction on a misunderstanding and that's enough to break our friendship I was never meant to be here in the first place so yeah 🙏🙏
2025-11-10 12:38:22
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moose :
Can’t repost this might trigger the wrong individual but just know I was here brudda
2025-11-10 12:58:35
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𝑉𝑖𝑜𝑙𝑒𝑡 :
im sorry its a traumatic response?
2025-11-10 08:41:54
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spam :
this is what i try telling em but i end up being the villain regardless lol
2025-11-10 00:58:58
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bevin kelly :
intention does not negate impact. if you hurt me and defend it with an explanation of your intention, you are not taking responsibility for hurting me. intention is important but that can be a separate conversation.
2025-11-11 06:48:58
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CHVMELEON🦎🧿 :
These comments whewwww
2025-11-11 19:32:22
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bersabejaso :
Intent does NOT negate impact! If did something to upset or hurt someone wether u meant to or not doesnt mean ur not in the wrong. If u hurt someone then you hurt them.
2025-11-10 16:44:07
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hni :
But sometimes you can reassure someone your intentions are not bad. Sometimes we need that
2025-11-10 08:07:57
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asia dorsey :
I understand both sides
2025-11-10 22:22:57
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scoobydew :
sign of manipulative behavior is expecting ppl to always give u the benefit of the doubt when you do/say something that hurts them. better to just be open to communicating about it.
2025-11-11 17:43:25
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Or they immediately get defensive like no baby I just wanna talk 🙁🙁🙁
2025-11-10 14:33:23
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some ppl arent ready for this conversation
2025-11-10 12:24:45
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patspdf :
especially if we’ve been friends for awhile
2025-11-10 18:42:51
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❀ 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 ✿ :
Especially when it’s clear they intentionally want to misunderstand you.
2025-11-11 04:48:44
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K🧃 :
Ppl say this knowing damn well their intentions are bad
2025-11-10 21:16:53
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Av🍎 :
But I grew up in a household where all I was taught was people being angry at me, even when it’s a small
2025-11-10 08:30:26
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