@austincalo: Replying to @Asira Wanted to give detail outside of the obvious points of how therapy is manipulative #therapy #MentalHealth #manipulation #psychology #growth

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adrianal0red.0
adriana *:・゚✧ :
yes!!! the clients are the experts of their lives but therapists are the experts on change (but this is informed through the client’s lived experiences) love your videos <3
2025-11-10 01:03:48
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ilyjean3
Nick :
what do you do when a client suddenly loses trust?
2025-11-10 12:34:31
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calirasa
Asira :
thanks for the explanation 😊
2025-11-13 08:49:26
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sbglaxy93
SB :
Noise necklace
2025-11-14 06:54:22
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j3lly023
j3lly :
Unrelated but In your experience do u find people who say they’re self aware are in fact self aware?
2025-11-10 01:50:18
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l.flowerfly
l.flowerfly :
Tolerate the cat meowing? The cat meowing just adds to the experience!
2025-11-10 04:25:22
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user625252525353788111
user625252525353788111 :
How do you know confidently what you provide or what you are trying to align them to was good for them? Is it really based on your knowledge from books or field your studying or at some point you provide info to them based on your experience and experience alone?
2025-11-11 03:00:03
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californiangelina
angelina 🧞‍♀️ :
Im guessing its harder to do with the very self aware clients
2025-11-10 01:45:07
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__serotonindopamine
TAYLOR | therapist in LA :
Ooooo yes it’s such a delicate intersection
2025-11-10 03:59:39
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pupperie.co
pupperie :
This was really helpful and interesting. Thank you! 🙏🏻
2025-11-10 03:02:50
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sissabeez
Alyssa Christine :
Like he said, everyone is manipulating things all day to get what they want, need, etc. manipulation is not all bad. 😁
2025-11-11 17:40:29
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epiphanylover426
Macky🧁 :
Is this why mine keeps telling me the same thing over and over again like girl i get it …😭
2025-11-10 03:07:15
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alw082
Al :
Plus them being there is an acceptance of what happens in the room
2025-11-10 01:46:37
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all4s4nity
all4s4nity :
my view on it is "therapy is manipulation for a good cause" (i'm going to be one lol)
2025-11-10 02:00:26
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uncontrollable_d.aria
Daria🌻 :
Meow 😻
2025-11-10 20:10:03
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xazadai
user6309820448832 :
Do you do online therapy?
2025-11-10 04:19:55
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cakeladyjacf
Justi Conner-Fair :
I disclosed to my new therapist that I left my previous provider because they were impatient and too aggressive. Now the tension is palpable when a sensitive topic arises during session. I've expressed that they may push me out of my comfort zone but there's is definitely hesitation on their part. I want to trust their process, but the noticeable awkwardness makes me think I made a mistake by mentioning my previous therapist. 🤔
2025-11-10 01:24:46
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calirasa
Asira :
My therapist said something deeply hurtful that tore open old attachment trauma. I spent over six months trying to work it out with him, but he kept becoming defensive and pulling away, while I regressed into that unwanted little child state and desperately needed co-regulation and repair. Instead, he became increasingly harsh, telling me I was asking for too much, behaving manipulatively or unfairly, and so on. This went on for six months, and I became more and more unstable. Now he has suddenly ended the therapy coldly by email, without even finding kind words for that moment. I was with him for three years, and now I’m not even allowed to say goodbye. I feel like he threw me away like garbage… Is this normal in therapy?
2025-11-13 08:50:10
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