@karinavsantiago: The saying “the way to get over someone is to get under someone new” is complete bs and people need to start feeling instead of deflecting. I know in my heart I will be okay but for now, I’m not which is also okay. Don’t wish ill on the other person, don’t say terrible things about them or lie on their name just let your emotions ride and be there for yourself. Go touch grass go for a run hangout with your friends. Because at one point, that person probably meant a lot to you.