@perrysisteranna: I’ve been reading Positive Discipline and the part on long-term effects really stopped me. It breaks down the three parenting styles: permissive, authoritarian, and the middle ground of being both kind AND firm…and how each one shapes kids over time. This part stayed with me: Kindness without boundaries creates insecurity… and boundaries without kindness create fear. Our kids need both to feel safe and capable long-term. Source: Positive Discipline Chapter: 1 #parenting #gentleparenting #toddlermom #MomsofTikTok #parentingtips

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tatyblvd
Miss Natural ❤️‍🔥 :
As a single mother I take pride in being an authoritative parent 🥰 it ain’t easy but it’s vital to parent this way
2025-11-18 20:26:09
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dmte__
Emarie :
I show kindness and firmness, but yesterday I was so worried I was being too firm and this was confirmation I needed!
2025-11-17 16:51:52
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motherhood_diaries123
The Tee’s :
Thank u for sharing this
2025-11-19 16:16:33
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itsalaifestyle
itsalaifestyle :
How early do we start with this? My son is 8 months. I think I’m form and kind now. 😭
2025-11-20 13:13:07
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saintbrzy
Saint_BRZY :
We use to have family meetings to discuss things we didn't agree on with our parents .. growing up it seemed excessive but my mom allowed us to disagree & discuss our feelings. But we were disciplined
2025-11-17 19:15:14
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patriciacruz396
SUNrise :
Which book is it
2025-11-19 06:27:31
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nicaryah.shirese
Nicaryah Shirese :
both would cause the same amount of damage but in different ways
2025-11-19 06:31:20
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oliviajones_12
Olivia Carter :
Yes that’s basically gentle parenting and I wish more people would learn about it instead of assuming it’s letting your kids do whatever they want!
2025-11-17 17:17:45
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autumn__b0tt0m
Autumn__b0tt0m :
What book is it?
2025-11-18 19:31:11
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sheled_
Sheled_ :
Who’s the author?
2025-11-18 00:13:10
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coolnas5
Shanice 🥰 :
What the book called?
2025-11-19 05:27:49
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azabuwisteria
azabuwisteria :
My husband’s parents were no warmth, all boundaries and yikes it’s been horrible to watch the aftermath of their parenting style.
2025-11-17 18:40:13
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rockosocko2020
RockoSocko2020 :
Authoritative is the research proven best parenting style. Not authoritarian, authoritative.
2025-11-17 17:49:39
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ctrlaltbey2
ctrlaltbey :
PSA for the people who swear gentle parenting doesn’t work: kind and firm is literally just another name for gentle parenting which is literally just another name for authoritative parenting (which is very different from authoritarian parenting)
2025-11-17 18:00:47
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aishamilburn2009
Aisha Milburn :
Kind and firm here 👋🏾. I don't call myself a gentle parent, though. I was brought up with authoritarian parents, so I'm doing my best to be the parent I needed back then.
2025-11-17 19:35:25
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estephxnix
Steph C. :
What’s the book called love?
2025-11-19 05:52:59
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aliiciaramos
Alicia :
Which book is this?
2025-11-19 04:06:54
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takarralatimer
takarralatimer :
Can you share the book info
2025-11-17 20:34:47
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throwbackthursdayy
TBTSSS_ :
Yes we learn this in psychology
2025-11-18 04:13:58
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aceelfexdm6
ashley :
It’s no win win .. it’s like I have to be a military sergeant with my boys cause if I show them any kind of kindness & warmth they think it go time .
2025-11-18 08:26:12
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eboneyhenry
eboneyhenry :
I’d say no warmth we use a talking stick in my house that to prevent me from over talking and lecturing everyone and give them a chance to speak then I can respond
2025-11-18 02:45:05
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mrs.kay3705
itsme_kay3705 :
Equally both of they are never taught healthy boundaries they grow up either making bad decisions or afraid of making bad decisions. If they're shown no warmth they become cold hearted, lacking understanding, and having a lack of love
2025-11-17 17:50:14
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biggerselflove
BiggerSelfLove :
Girl I wish there was a dashboard with a parenting grade cause I’m just trying my best at this point. I’m setting boundaries, asking nicely, giving warnings 🤣 she seem to be doing okay but I hear you don’t get your “parenting report card” and really see how you did raising them until they hit early 20s
2025-11-17 19:32:38
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amandagermain4
Amanda Germain :
Patting myself on the back bc I’m last one 🥰
2025-11-17 17:26:17
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lottsdaughter
lala💎 | wife + sahm 🌸🩰 :
Couldn’t agree with this more! Gentle parenting for a lot of people looks like no boundaries…
2025-11-18 00:35:47
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