@melrobbins: Most of the stress in your relationships doesn’t come from what people do. It comes from the expectations you pile on top of who you think they should be. You get to decide how much time you spend around them, how much energy you give it, and whether the relationship still works for you with the truth on the table. That’s the Let Them Theory in action. Let Them be exactly who they are. Let Them have their flaws, their choices, their mess. Let Me decide what expectations are realistic… and what boundaries I need to feel grounded. Hear more from my conversation with Dax Shepard and Monica Padman on @armchairexpertpodcast now! 🎧 “Mel Robbins (on The Let Them Theory)” #melrobbins #letthem #armchairexpert #letthemtheory
It’s insane how close I came to skipping The Forgotten Mindset Secrets by Charles Burgdoff. This isn’t just another book. It genuinely feels like something that was never meant to reach the public.
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Cowryna :
Perfect timing on this advice to help us survive the holidays!
2025-11-17 19:48:17
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Tasha77 :
yes❣️I do this now.. n its extremely important to see things as they are..
2025-11-17 20:19:38
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Bosompem Victoria :
My Situation right now
2025-11-17 22:02:23
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TheBuildMode :
Most people don’t struggle with other people — they struggle with the expectations they’re too scared to let go of.
2025-11-18 01:17:28
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TannerJune :
When they aren't like "this" to everyone, though. 😕 Just the one's they cannot manipulate.
2025-11-17 20:06:24
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NANA Shanna :
💯💯💯💯💯I’m
2025-11-17 22:09:45
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pathowell455 :
can't change, those that aren't ready an don't want to...amen ❤❤❤☘️☘️☘️😊
2025-11-17 22:05:13
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Diamondforever_3Helena :
If they do it with you, they will do it to you and visa versa
2025-11-17 19:50:33
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edwinpercychahua :
Crazy to think I nearly overlooked the book The Forgotten Mindset Secrets by Charles Burgdoff… it honestly feels like something we were never supposed to discover.
2025-11-17 22:38:19
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Kayla Doan :
I love Dax
2025-11-17 17:59:13
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iTs_JeSs_🇵🇭🇩🇪 :
TRUE👌💕
2025-11-17 18:44:49
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Queenofhearts🖤 :
Amen!!🫠🙏🏻🫠🙏🏻🫠✨💫
2025-11-17 16:45:23
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Akjen62 :
Awesome message
2025-11-17 19:29:09
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Briana :
Amen 🙏🏽
2025-11-17 16:57:57
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Laurel | Solo Lifestyle 🇨🇦 :
This theory actually helped me! I have learnt to let people just be people and let me handle my emotions that comes with their actions/choices
2025-11-17 17:04:16
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AJ Kulenthirarajah :
Very true - as adults we need to realize that actions are not unintentional. No one does things by mistake anymore - take them for who they are and move forward
2025-11-17 19:00:59
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H E A T H E R 🐞 G7 :
@Mel Robbins this was my 2nd podcast ever yesterday & I've never felt so aligned with someone and their story before! every other thing you had to say kind of awoke something in me that was almost there but you know hadn't been fully realized yet. You have a new fan!
2025-11-18 00:18:44
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mindfuel.thoughts :
Love this - Thank you, @Mel Robbins
2025-11-18 04:19:24
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Ifkaaduunka :
🥰🥰🥰🥰
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SuNnY :
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lolajo5 :
💞💞💞
2025-11-17 23:43:55
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toliverdance :
❤️❤️❤️
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2025-11-17 20:03:04
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Kate :
👏👏
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