@heartstrangz: My mother lost custody of her kids in 2012 and if you think I’m disrespectful I find it disrespectful to have 3 kids @ 19  #heartstrangz #thisismystory #singlemom #foodstamps #section8

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Wednesday 19 November 2025 20:08:12 GMT
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keairabreanna
keaira 💗 :
I hate how people act like having kids is unpreventable!
2025-11-19 20:18:03
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surenamariee
Surena :
Everyone disagreeing.. they PROJECTINGG 🗣️🗣️🗣️
2025-11-19 20:20:56
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frankieb4real
Frankie B :
I remember folks being shocked that I only had 1 kid, yes kids cost money and I struggled with 1 why would I make life harder by having more children 😒
2025-11-20 10:36:00
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emilyluv004
emilyluv004 :
im 21 with 2 kids. My biggest blessing. NO REGRETS BOO! NO SECTION 8. I OWN house and no stamps. also have a college degree. do you?
2025-11-19 20:27:39
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vanillaisblack_
VanillaIsBlack :
Providing the BARE minimum to STAY out of jail is NOT enough nor is it good parenting. Period.
2025-11-19 22:13:39
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crysm813
crysm813 :
As a mother who had her child at 18 and received government assistance until I graduated from nursing school. I agree, teenagers shouldn’t have children and my son who now has a masters degree and is living his best life now, I did him a huge disservice by being young and choosing the wrong man to be his dad.
2025-11-20 09:53:13
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tam_bamss
Tam :
Idk why people feel like dead beat moms don’t exist?
2025-11-19 21:15:35
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axg346
aXg :
Never stop talking about this
2025-11-19 20:17:57
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user35pushinp
user35pushinp :
Why is this even a argument?
2025-11-19 21:03:30
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daywithdelta
Delta :
Our community needs to hear this!!! The cycle gotta stop.
2025-11-19 22:57:36
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realpaidnprettyk_
Keyひ :
and then the parents that be encouraging the teen pregnancy likeeeee😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
2025-11-19 20:36:23
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poviellewilliams
poviellewilliams :
Because your truth triggered a part of them they did not want to face
2025-11-20 04:55:35
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mytytyriesha
MyTy Tyriesha :
I understand where you’re coming from. i def have issues with my mom who had me at 14 and died at 23 with 4 kids.
2025-11-19 23:19:39
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lawnileee
laniiii :
the gag is they wouldn’t be so mad if they were truly okay with their poor choices 😭
2025-11-19 20:47:09
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auntiebettye
auntiebettye :
I totally agree!!!! I did not have any kids in my 20s because I was broke!!! I had my only child at 38 and stopped because having children are a big responsibility and it is a lifelong obligation.
2025-11-20 01:25:15
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plzdontjud9e
0.0 :
Mind you, a lot of women wouldn’t dare having children if they knew the government wouldn’t assist.
2025-11-20 02:10:24
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helloim_kyra
Kyra :
"If you can't feed your baby Then don't have a baby" - Michael Joseph Jackson
2025-11-20 01:37:03
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thefacegawdess
thefacegawdess :
mind you the program threatening to end every week
2025-11-20 03:37:10
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anatomicalheartz4
Daisy :
my mom had her first at 15, her third by 19. lost custody of us one after the other. many years later had a fourth and eventually lost custody of him as well. bc we are the result of these women we know it's wrong. they set us up for failure.
2025-11-20 04:29:21
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_thegodmother_717
Courtney Wright :
keep speaking the truth ✨
2025-11-20 06:43:33
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sosa_dan06
epiphany 172 :
What are YOU doing now?
2025-11-20 01:36:28
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sahsahmom
Shedira :
Teenage moms who did there best and got it from the mud and fought to be successful WE AGREE!!!! When only the strong survive. The ones who were young moms n had to WORK and don't get govt assistance we seriously agree. DONT DO IT !!!
2025-11-20 05:22:05
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denab2121
Dena :
As a 29 y/o who had her kid at 24 on foodstamps, low income housing and food stamps, ON UNEMPLOYMENT…. I am not having any more kids. I now dont need any of the assistance and I am glad my life changed before she got older. I am now aware I ccould not afford a kid back then and now I can only afford the one I have. We take vacations, been to disney 3 times, we dont have a house yet, we live in an apartment but we will be there not too far from now. People need to realize having a kid is a big responsability and stop having kids just because they want a “baby”
2025-11-19 20:39:58
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randa7681
randa7681 :
I’m a product of a teenage mother. She disrespected me my entire life because she was emotionally immature and hated my existence. When I showed her an ounce of the disrespect she gave me 7 years ago bc I was over her antics, she got offended and gave me the silent treatment. 7 years later she still doesn’t speak to me and my life is peaceful. Just bc they are your family doesn’t mean you have to tolerate them!
2025-11-19 22:19:00
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zacharywhitfield4
zacharywhitfield4 :
They missed the whole point …. It’s ok to use it as a step up but not a living
2025-11-20 05:26:21
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