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Hibichó :
As a social worker, I agree. I know a lot of ppl don’t like her but Chrisean is a good example of this. Whatever trauma she experienced, she never recovered from in any sense.
2025-11-20 18:39:41
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kericarver6 :
Not everyone has a support system either!
2025-11-20 16:52:28
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Vee🧿 :
God please don’t let me stay here because it’s really painful it’s overwhelming it hurts
2025-11-22 10:17:39
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the lost cause :
sometimes the darkness isn't a tunnel either, but a bottomless pit.
2025-11-22 09:12:17
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shawna smith :
That’s real 👌💯
2025-11-22 10:10:18
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Bri.E :
Sometimes people are actually victims not survivors smh
2025-11-20 12:37:06
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𝙱𝚁𝙸 ۞ :
as someone who bounced back, I can see why they stay there ..
2025-11-20 13:15:06
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Carmela Orobio :
Psychology shows that when your nervous system is dysregulated, your brain doesn’t think rationally, it survives. It defaults to the trauma response: fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. That’s why fear takes over. That’s why avoidance feels safer than change. You’re not broken. Your body is just stuck in protection mode. Most of us keep doomscrolling, waiting for one more healing tip or viral video to finally make it click. But that’s not healing. That’s self-soothing through distraction. You can’t rewire pain while avoiding it. Real healing starts when u start facing what your nervous system is trying to tell you. It’s raw. It’s uncomfortable. It’s the moment your brain screams “don’t go there” and you go there anyway. Facing this truth hurts, but it’s the only way to actually get better. If this resonates with you, read Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson. It goes deeper than any short video ever could and shows you how to calm your nervous system, break your trauma loops, and finally feel like yourself again.
2025-11-21 02:48:27
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Imkandiss :
You are absolutely right. Healing is HARD.
2025-11-20 09:20:05
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Amb | in the comments 💬 :
Exactly why I don’t judge people who taken the addiction route.
2025-11-20 16:13:20
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EeeeeeeeYUCK :
Ill never respect anybody that get abused and turned into an abuser and we not gone normalize ts
2025-11-20 17:30:57
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Mercy :
Trauma isn’t “character building”….its destruction. You burn a house down, you can’t expect it to piece its ashes back together
2025-11-21 04:06:36
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Taskfro :
I hear what you saying but I don’t think it’s necessarily “their fault” but it is 100% is on them to get better cause no one really cares about you like that. So you don’t really have a choice. Also if people can come back from literal WAR and heal. I promise you it’s possible. My Neighbors legs exploded in Iraq. Happiest person I’ve ever met
2025-11-20 08:37:10
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Simmer down 👽 :
I think it’s bc everybody’s obsessed with victims taking accountability
2025-11-20 11:49:54
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Maliah :
Not their fault but their responsibility to work through it and overcome
2025-11-20 07:35:37
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x :
Ppl who are traumatized should protect themselves from ppl who would never be able to handle what they been through.
2025-11-20 11:07:02
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justakissandahug :
I blame the commodification of therapy and grind culture
2025-11-20 15:01:09
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°○° :
"but they have a choice!" or maybe they went through things worse than you can imagine
2025-11-20 09:17:43
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🪬Camila🧞♀️ :
People only respect your traumas and pain once you get OUT of it. They don’t care to help or be there to support you fighting the battle. Only if you win…
2025-11-20 13:45:35
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Daliah’s Dollhouse :
I don’t think anything will ever repair my nervous system or my confidence. I’m grateful to be still alive but I find it hard to live a life.
2025-11-20 11:37:33
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eyelandofme :
It was too much for too long.
2025-11-20 07:35:35
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gibbyy44 :
i always say it is a PRIVILEGE to be able to come out of the darkness of trauma and mental illness. it takes community, access and resources. things not everyone has
2025-11-20 21:33:57
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🍉🍉 :
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS
2025-11-21 14:03:20
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MsWilhelm :
yesss I hate when people are like well everyone has problems. yes and sometimes it kills them.
2025-11-20 15:51:12
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a :
most people won’t even understand this bc they’ve truly never experienced a level of evil trauma that changes a person forever. a human brain isn’t built to understand inhumane trauma so most people tend to judge the way people cope with those trauma bc realistically the trauma is so severe their brain can’t fathom how the person survived the unsurvivable
2025-11-20 14:24:48
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