@thesashawhitney: Replying to @heyheyhey the passage of time doesn’t necessarily change things for some people however in Onyeka’s case, I do think time and therapy would’ve benefited her and impacted how she told her story along with the reception she received. #onyeka #danishdeception #selfawareness #therapy #HealingJourney
The attacks are too much I don’t think she’s a bad person the internet is a brutal place
2025-11-23 20:03:45
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Not your baby 💜💜 :
I love this, especially the part about healing/growth isn't linear but the passage of time gives distance and different perspectives. 🤔🤔🤔 It's something to think about in my own life
2025-11-23 19:16:09
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Internet's Baby Mama 🇨🇲🇳🇬 :
yeah like the divorce was finalised THIS MONTH (November). She should have posted the videos and then travelled more and done a cute Eat, Pray, Love with her friends or other loved ones.
2025-11-24 09:10:47
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Anna Calypso :
There is no timeline BUT be ready for the smoke that will come with telling your story so soon. Onyeka didn’t heal yet, the ink on the divorce papers is still wet. Hasn’t even been a month.
2025-11-24 15:43:31
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Sasha :
I’m not saying someone should be groveling and boohooing and I realize she’s a fairly sunny person with a bubbly disposition I find enjoyable but the chuckling and smiling while sharing a story where someone was disrespectful toward her, her family, her friends, stole from them, and violated their trust? It was a little off putting and as a fellow Nigerian American girl, I’m genuinely shocked she would share any of this. We are very private people.
2025-11-23 18:25:11
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Mongezi from Azania :
also just to add. tik tok / social media as well as the nature in which we use these apps is not like normal? like between financial incentives. social media incentives [ her travelling business? her recent financial situation etc] like all of these things have contributed in some capacity to why shes posted it a blur night after her divorced herr
2025-11-24 09:51:39
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Mandu :
Agreed. It was wayyyy too soon, and not from a place of bashing her, but more from a place of sadness. There is so much growth and healing that we could tell wasn’t there yet, and this “ending” literally 2 weeks ago is definitely not it.
2025-11-24 05:51:43
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