@ericka.leonn: That experience in gave me the ick and was so embarrassing to see a woman act like that… #dating #datinginnyc #datingadvice #datinginyour20s #meangirls #bekind #nyc #nightlife #nycbars #girls #foryoupage #fyp #storytime#pov

Jimmyalbert :

one time i went up to a girl in a bar and before I even said anything she just said “ITS A NO, A HARD NO” and waved me away while all her friends cackled and laughed at me. Felt so unnecessary bro.

Steph :

If the approach is respectful then the response should be respectful but if the dude keeps on going after rejection then fellas that's on you.

Gellor02 :

I don't think anything is changing soon

TMGS Jah :

Water found in ocean type of news 😢

Aliyxx01 :

the first time ever? you thought they were angels til now?

michael 🇵🇸 :

you dont owe men your kindness or your time. some girls genuinely do not want to be approached, and others do, and its perfectly within their right to act accordingly

Who knows :

This is why we don't approach anymore.

Garrett Von Rudenborg :

yea its honestly just easier accepting being forever alone

🍫 🌮 :

u just barely noticing?😅

@lexTru :

Now go out with attractive tall guys and see the energy they get.All of a sudden everything they say is funny 😅😅😅

fqkeemail12 :

“The worst she can say is no” her:”ewww no” *walks away giggling

ali :

interesting 💀

Workswilder :

This is why I just stand around till a girl approaches me. 1 I know she likes me and 2 I don’t have to put in as much work.

PreguntameNYC :

Lmao here come all the guys with “see it’s so difficult”, who then turn around with where my hug at energy. Dating is difficult for both genders for different reasons, and that’s ok

Brandon :

Don’t go up to em anymore. Not worth the effort or time.

nycgirltee :

GothBoiClique :

As a man myself, I used to be that guy who never had female friends, was too scared to approach women and spark up a conversation… but now!?! Idk where this wave of confidence came from but I compliment women, I chat with them, tell some of them they’re beautiful, and I even get their numbers🤷🏽 women really do like confidence. Yall gotta understand a lot of these women are looking for their king, someone who’s gonna treat them right, so stop being afraid to talk to them. Stop GAF about the out come and trust yourself.

Dee Villalba :

yo fr! i can never understand girls being mean. i love when people talk to me 😭😭😭

vibesall2025 :

“The worst she can say is no” is a myth in New York lmao. You get it 🙏 this why two people will like each other and act like they can’t stand one another. Constant ego competitions on both sides men and women.

Ty 🇬🇩👨🏾‍💻 :

Appreciate you understanding us love ❤️

wepa :

it's true. why bother lol.

AM :

Dear lord protect her 🫵🏽🥹🙏🏾🙏🏾

Cirrus_93 :

Yeah I had the “I don’t have a name” used on me before.. I wasn’t even trying to get with anyone, just being conversational.

Steve - O :

that was literally nothing