Trying Not to Care
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Wednesday 03 December 2025 17:07:31 GMT
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jttaylor97 :
I agree with half of this. But! When you have had a conversation with the same person multiple times. I will cut off the person for my peace. If we talked about and nothing changes there’s no longer space in my life 🤷🏻♀️
2025-12-03 18:05:29
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Bare Beauty By Brandie :
People would rather protect their peace, dodge accountability, and literally lose their friends simply because they can’t just show empathy & have an open/ honest conversation.
2025-12-03 22:25:24
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Jennay0310 :
I agree but it’s also important to remember you HAVE to protect your peace especially when you finally realize the relationship was verbally and emotionally abusive. Once you reopen that door there is a probability of falling back into old habits of abuse
2025-12-08 12:44:39
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alana rose :
I love this, it’s the same as “you don’t owe anyone anything” and in some aspects yes but also we owe each other basic respect and human decency !!
2025-12-04 12:25:35
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Gad Levine :
There’s a real difference between avoiding someone and avoiding responsibility. One protects peace. The other just avoids growth.
2025-12-03 21:54:52
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Angelica Rodriguez :
And blame it on boundaries..
2025-12-04 02:40:42
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Shilps :
But when you know the conversation will go no where what’s the point
2025-12-04 23:04:40
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Life With Belinda|ATL Creator :
I fully understand about having the conversation because protecting your peace, shouldn’t be a excuse to not have difficult conversations… However, context matters when someone has either disrespected you multiple times or nothing has changed and they refuse to have a conversation😩
2025-12-04 12:11:09
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ina :
nope. i try to have the difficult conversation and when the other party isn't capeble doing the same and start to deflect, lie or attack you, that's when i back out to protect my peace.
2025-12-04 11:07:02
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firtoks2 :
Crazy to think I nearly overlooked the book The Unseen Rules of Mindset by Daniel Constantine… it honestly feels like something we were never supposed to discover.
2025-12-03 22:03:53
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alexia robinson :
Ugh these clips keep popping up but idk what episodes they are! 😭
2025-12-08 18:01:18
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Esmeralda Luna :
Or maybe they just don’t care….
2025-12-04 14:40:51
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Amacky87 :
People are using it as a way to escape a relationship. All relationships require a compromise, and people are mistaking boundaries and lack of compromise to keeping our peace.
2025-12-04 11:24:21
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Amanda piano :
People protect themself so much they gonna be lonley for life
2025-12-03 19:04:12
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Doza.Lia :
Imagine communicating how you feel but people still show you how inconsiderate they are. It’s not worth eating my breath anymore
2025-12-07 17:07:46
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Shaina | Blind Filipina :
‘ They played the victim because playing the victim feels better for their ego’
2025-12-04 00:02:05
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AlleyPalley :
Agreed! I genuinely hate the passive aggressive silent treatment, all because they cannot have a honest conversation, especially with themselves. The nastiness is not okay. We are all adults and need to be approaching hard conversations with empathy. End of story.
2025-12-03 22:51:09
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Rocky :
Protecting your peace’ is starting to feel like a cover for neglecting the basic responsibilities of friendship—checking in, showing up, having hard/uncomfortable conversations, and checking in. Calling it ‘protecting your peace’ doesn’t justify avoiding the core duties of a friendship. That’s not peace, that’s neglect. If that’s what you call protecting your peace, I’d rather not be friends.✌🏽
2025-12-04 12:37:53
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T’Mars Art :
Every issue we had was brought to me in a long essay. I apologize for my had in hurting that. However when roles are reversed I am supposed to accept it. I said how I felt and was told I am playing “victim” and now they are protecting their peace. So now I am left with broken space.
2025-12-07 06:25:02
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Jessica Sanchez :
Exaclty, it just feels like they’re avoiding accountability and it feels incredibly invalidating. Except for me it feels like i need to try and understand them too, even though they don’t deserve it at all.
2025-12-04 07:58:45
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sydney :
where can i buy the hoodie 🙏
2025-12-03 18:42:36
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_lnrdx :
this happened to me with one of my closest friends. She just shut me down and said that she doesn’t wanna be part of any drama.
2025-12-04 09:17:38
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apeja 𐙚⋆ :
they think they're protecting their peace but what i see is just them running away from the discomfort so yeah
2025-12-05 05:04:37
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PitQueenPOV :
I protect my peace after giving way too many chances.
2025-12-05 04:29:09
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Rodrigo Garza :
It requires for the other person to have emotional intelligence if not most definitely protect your peace. That’s the thing we do want to have those difficult conversations but when the other person has no willingness to listen we must protect our peace. It is the sad reality for most of us! 🥹🥲
2025-12-05 14:21:19
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