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Samantha :
Really excellent advice. This is where I’m at. Building a life outside of their validation.
2025-12-03 21:00:44
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Caroline Darragh :
Almost 1 year into my divorce and THIS is possibly the best, most accurate and insightful advice I’ve seen. Ladies - believe her!!✨
2025-12-04 14:48:11
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Bianca Llambés :
This is amazing advice! This is exactly how I knew I needed a divorce and found the strength because my identity was separate from my relationship.
2025-12-10 03:45:06
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Jackie Omelet :
My ex and I built those friendships/hobbies our entire marriage and then ultimately realized that we were not compatible through spending time away from each other… this is pretty solid advice that is a win either way
2025-12-03 21:29:01
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elise.elise.elise :
Do people not do these things while they’re married? Have interests and hobbies and travel and friends completely separate from their spouse?
2025-12-04 00:48:50
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brieleamber :
This is great advice for everyone even if you aren’t questioning your relationship. You need many outlets to feel fulfilled it’s not one persons job to do it all for you 🥰
2025-12-03 23:55:14
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rachael :
yes! i went back to school and a couple of years into my degree, i realized i needed to get a divorce. the 2 things were directly related
2025-12-03 20:40:04
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Izzi :
I'm so scared to get a divorce but I'm so so so tired of the aduse
2025-12-05 18:10:11
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Jackelyn :
I think this is good advice for couples without kids but when you have kids and he just keeps going and doing things as if he doesn’t have a family all while I’m home all day and night with the kids it feels so unfair and unbalanced
2025-12-05 01:43:55
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Karissa Lambert :
I got divorced in my 20s after he travelled for work for a month and I was so happy. I started running and my friends were over all the time and I wasn’t stressed about him all the time it was so good.
2025-12-07 13:13:07
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Brittany Cramer :
Yes. I self abandoned in my marriage. Totally focused on him and our life. He grew resentful because he felt he couldn’t have a social life, because I didn’t. I didn’t understand why he didn’t want to do everything with me like I did. He just didn’t need that. But he self isolated without me knowing, ultimately leading him to leave
2025-12-08 19:05:50
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Sunnybrook Rebecca :
If you have kids, create an in-home custody schedule. Have the non-primary parent do full-day care, without the primary parent preparing food, clothing, transportation, etc. I get SO MUCH DONE post-divorce. It’s mind-blowing how much time I have.
2025-12-03 22:15:40
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laurenwagner1 :
I appreciate this advice for young couples. Or really just people who become too codependent in a relationship. I waited until I was 30 before I got married, I had already built my entire life. A partner was icing to my cake. Not ingredients to the cake 🥰
2025-12-03 22:22:53
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dirty_martiniii :
I feel like this is just the recipe for a successful relationship in general. such good advice!
2025-12-06 01:17:51
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kgash95 :
Im the or. Im realizing that its him thats codependent and it feels so suffocating. Like wont directly say Im not allowed to do some things. But I feel it you know? Then it feels controlling and I realized I dont have an identity nor does it feel like Im “allowed” to have one. So yea Im getting there.
2025-12-05 15:52:59
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Sofia :
Great video thank you
2025-12-03 20:42:27
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alexietheaesthetician :
This is great advice and what I'm doing right now. I didn't realize how suffocating the marriage was until I found hobbies and interests again
2025-12-07 05:14:02
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Regulate with Jess :
As a woman who’s been divorced twice, and almost walked away from my current relationship, This is incredibly sound 10 out of 10 wisdom. I thankfully caught this cycle in myself, and when I started to question this current relationship chose to invest back into myself, and my relationship is growing stronger and stronger. And I agree with you that it is definitely a fork in the road that can go either way, but the most important thing we can do is to invest back into us so that we can make that decision from an integrated place
2025-12-04 01:08:12
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PekoePekoewitz :
Great advice tbh
2025-12-03 20:03:54
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Zandrah :
Goldddd✨🖤🔥 if someone’s already questioning it, chances are they’re half way there. More often than not, there are clear issues in the marriage that are becoming louder and less easy to sweep under the rug and turn a blind eye to. And finding identity and fulfilling yourself and filling your cup isn’t enough. Usually going to be the latter in your video.
2025-12-06 15:32:54
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Ari n Gerta ✨ :
Thank you this is very helpful and am starting to do this for myself!
2025-12-07 01:52:52
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chewchew420 :
After 5 years of marriage, 3 years of recovering and getting help to understand a trust violation on my husbands part, I realized all our issues stemmed from him. He had no friends, he had low self esteem, he struggled with alcohol and self regulation. He is a fearful avoidant. When we met, I was the leader in the relationship. I did everything! I felt his mental shift once he got comfortable. I felt like a parent, and he started to resent me. I have come to this point, I either accept he will never level up to my standards as a husband or let him go. One day( a week ago) I said, “I wanna separate.. you don’t know who you are or what you want. I do. And because I love you so much I want to fix you but I know now I cannot. YOU HAVE TO FIX yourself. I lost my security/happiness focusing on you for the past 3 years.” I feel like I lifted a weight off my shoulders. His mental health is not my job anymore.. my wellbeing is more important. 💕
2025-12-07 19:50:05
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Jubilee Dawn :
This is AMAZING advice
2025-12-06 03:54:00
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MackBurt :
This is incredible advice.
2025-12-05 20:52:09
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L A C E Y 🤍 :
I love this advice though ❤
2025-12-05 23:27:32
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