@user3478197350: #avoidant

‘d🤍. :

why am I so afraid of something I want

tasyaminin :

you do NOT want to be an avoidant. the guilt that comes with being one is horrible

🃏 :

I love someone avoidant but the avoidant attachment is ruining it for us what should I do

Oakley R. :

“i hate being avoidant” people say as they proceed to do nothing about it

fourthgilmoregirl :

do people with an avoidant attachment style not realise that they can heal and become secure?

AlfonsoMarrero :

Everything you ever wanted in your life is on the other side of what you are doing now. Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of the comfort zone, in the unknown. If you really want to become the version of yourself you dreamt about you gotta take action and do what you never did, you can’t do what 99% of others do and expect to have the same results as the other 1%, thats not how the universe works. I know how you feel, i know in what circumstances you are in right now, but you can change that and become ideal version of yourself in less than few years if you take action now and do what you are supposed to do. The switch in my mindset happened when i read How to ACTUALLY Attract by Rick Lewis and i’ve been leveling up since then non-stop.

Hana :

once yall turn avoidant there is no going back. i hate this feeling of constant emptiness and not being able to love people who give me so much.

lib :

the guilt that come with being an avoidant can be so miserable

𝒿𝓊𝓁🐈‍⬛ :

dira :

how it feels to be a clingy n avoidant all at once

Diedits :

It’s fun until you realize you can’t tell you if you messed up a genuine connection because you were afraid to love

🪷 :

eventually, it will happen

Nikki Tontelle :

As an avoidant, you don't want this at all

𝙀𝙢 ── .✦ :

Love feels so easy in dreams, there’s no fear and no pressure. I wish it stayed that way

Ry :

No one is an avoidant. “Avoidants” just want the one person they can never have

atthispointidk_0000000 :

i realized i'm avoidant with my friends too...sometimes i just want to 'unknow' them and the fact that i have only two friends and dont get me wrong, i really love them from the bottom of my heart. i just...i don't know...i dont want to know them anymore, i wanna be alone again...i miss being alone if that makes sense🫩

🪼 :

bein an avoidant is all chill till it hits 10pm

🌙 :

I am an anxious who turned into an avoidant

elinadpln :

Soph :

I don’t want to be avoidant. I only became avoidant because it felt like the only way to have some semblance of control over my own emotions. Now, I struggle to genuinely connect with people or to keep relationships because I always believe that my efforts will never be enough. Anyone who sees this and knows me, no you don’t.

Amara :

It’s not nice being an avoidant to be honest, the feeling of loneliness hits randomly. You can’t even enjoy or take a moment

s :

i became an avoidant because an avoidant ruined me 🙏

the realest :

Some yall not avoidant just have high standards

momtahinaacc :

I yearn for this every minute of my life…I’m not even joking