it's always about the avoidant, what do you do for your partner?
2026-02-11 23:39:26
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Klrk :
Can anyone give me tips she told me to give her some space and wants to break up and now we keep things platonic we still talk.
Do you think I did the right thing or should I have stayed with her. I don't wanna lose her but I can't keep hurting myself and her by staying since I worry too much.
2026-01-25 19:02:07
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Guys I need advice… I have an avoidant bf who most of the time is very shy and doesn’t talk a lot. I know he doesn’t like being around lots of people and prefers being alone most of the time. I’ve been trying to help him get over his anxiety and feel safe with me, but he has a hard time with emotions and can’t express himself freely. I always reassure him by saying I’ll always be here to talk/listen and that I’m not going anywhere. It’s hard for me to tell whether he’s confused or overwhelmed by our relationship and I really want us to work out and he knows that too. Any ideas about how I can talk to him in a gentle way and get him to understand how I feel about his actions and words and how I want him to improve?? I don’t wanna be pushy abt it tho and make him shut down. This behaviour has been going on for the past 3 weeks since we got back tg for the second time.
2026-02-12 15:26:05
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Mossing? :
it's always about the avoidant, what do you do for your partner? (99)
2026-03-06 06:30:47
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_nawa_raja :
Why did this came in my feed so late … she just walked away 3 days ago !! When she was the one who used to show me dreams like together forever !! 🥺💔
2026-01-16 15:36:56
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zzz :
i feel so stupid for not knowing hwo to do this
2026-02-11 11:23:40
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klly_underwd :
number 3 is actually really good to know, I don’t want to let the distance linger because I don’t want her to misread me giving her more space than before as me not wanting to engage.. is there any way reconnection can be done without putting pressure on her?
2026-01-08 20:20:14
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derick_kels :
He, he, he, he, and I do nothing 💅✨
2026-02-06 09:35:36
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️ :
Seeing this right after we broke up is crazy
2026-02-05 05:38:15
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Roshan Pariyar :
May be I also be this for her if I had knew all this things and know about attachments types I just let her go 🙃
2026-01-01 13:15:50
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Jesse :
the thing with number 5 is how do I know she's actually seeing this and not just thinking "he's staying anyway so I'll irresponsibly behave however I want"?
2026-02-08 18:23:42
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futbol ⚽ :
well i wish I had seen this before, but I'll try to improve myself and even we are friends now , I'll make sure she feels safe around me
not pulling away, i hope we get together in future irish...
2026-02-12 13:52:50
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Kian von vevras :
How am i sure she is avoidant and not just stressed.
2026-02-08 09:14:00
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W-Coutts-21 :
What do I do if she broke up with me because of this
2026-01-15 20:33:31
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ThatOneHitHard :
yet.
2026-02-15 06:22:06
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e :
this would help me
2026-01-08 12:23:37
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nameless :
too late
2026-02-15 20:35:21
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jikob :
gg moon
2026-01-16 10:40:44
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Yuan :
noted 📝
2026-01-28 14:02:18
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Nicolas :
Thanks, I needed this advice
2026-01-26 07:51:43
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miri :
ty for this video
2026-02-05 00:46:14
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jyani26 :
Where is part 1
2026-02-10 10:51:16
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Khamsum K Wangchuk :
whay if she said she lost feelings?
2026-01-27 22:15:43
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ethan :
but what woulf i do when she said something below the belt
2026-02-06 13:29:54
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Captn_doodle :
hope you will have a happy life together
2026-01-17 13:27:09
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