Laura Danger
Region: US
Monday 12 February 2024 20:01:00 GMT
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OfcourseIdid :
THEY DON’T LOVE YOU-THEY LOVE BEING LOVED BY YOU.
2024-02-12 21:28:02
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MinDroo💙🥾 :
They are very comfortable with your unhappiness as long as it doesn't negatively impact them. Then they wonder why the divorce came "out of nowhere."
2024-02-12 21:26:42
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Faith In Nature 🧿 :
Matching energy was the best decision I ever made. No more resentment.
2024-02-13 04:47:21
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livelyblueeyes :
When you realize this about someone you thought loved you it is soul crushing. Not only does he not love me, he doesn’t even care about my humanity. Crushing.
2024-02-12 23:40:28
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✨Eve ✨ :
Boop… this is why I’m getting a divorce
2024-02-13 03:54:28
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Rac :
Working on my 2-year exit strategy from 16 years of this BS
2024-02-12 20:45:13
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Monstera :
This realization was so painful. Im now 2 months post breakup after 4.5 yrs together. I dont think I ever want a partnership again
2024-02-12 20:58:57
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sad & spooky games :
idk the more I learn about ADHD the more I'm learning how devastatingly difficult these things are for some partners. Now we need to find what works.
2024-02-13 13:15:14
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GreivingTheLiving :
I get disrespected often and we are in the beginning stages of a live in separation. He got mad wen I said I’m dne cooking and doin laundry 4 him.
2024-02-12 20:20:06
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swagmariooo :
This can be true for ppl who are engaging in weaponized incompetence, but I think this idea can be harmful to neurodivergent folks.
2024-02-13 23:07:22
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no1grilledcheesefan :
“they are not invested in you thriving” 🥲
2024-02-13 02:31:04
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JessieRae1112 :
my husband will eat dinner (that i cooked) come up and wash HIS plate. while there is a sink full of dishes. and he thinks he’s helping me.
2024-02-13 19:31:50
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Wrapped in Plastic :
My husband’s excuse: he is depressed bc we don’t “connect.” I’ve told him I don’t have the capacity after handling ALL the adulting.
2024-02-13 17:37:55
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Always scared :
Pregnant and sick on an iv at home still expected to cook dinner while nursing my son
2024-02-12 21:08:56
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Nicole Anderson9486 :
it's painful asking someone for help in the first place, and then to feel guilty or resentful bc they feel bossed around is even worse
2024-02-13 23:15:26
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Whoneedsaname :
I will never regret my divorce for these exact reasons
2024-02-12 20:31:43
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Kristen Buell 🍉 :
You cannot force someone to love you the way you need to be loved. They either do or they don’t. Hardest lesson in love is learning to let go.
2024-02-13 00:09:17
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Tayuh :
When your partners doesn’t see any of the housework/mothering/emotional labor as work, and asks you to get a physical job too..
2024-03-29 17:28:33
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⋆˙𓍊₊ ⊹˚ 𝔧𝔢𝔫𝔫𝔶 ⋆˙𓍊₊ ⊹˚ :
My bf and I have these kind of fights. I’m ADHD and struggle with completing tasks, and he sees it as I don’t love him enough to do those tasks :(
2024-02-13 20:09:09
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Emilia :
Why I’m planning to quietly leave. 18 years of giving and being emotionally neglected. Everything you said 💯 he just started washing some dishes here and there. But he wants a reward for that 🤭
2024-03-27 16:47:04
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SoulKarina :
How do I send this to someone without sending it to someone
2024-02-28 00:51:49
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kät :
fighting for my husband to understand this.. it's so bad for my self worth. working on focusing on me and decentering him in my life now. just isn't worth the fight. I'm better than that.
2024-02-13 00:53:40
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Melissa Sturges :
I’m happily divorced because of this difference in attention
2024-02-15 02:06:14
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Penny Crayon607 :
Unpopular opinion: this same thing can sometimes happen from a caring partner who struggles to get their brain to get this care work done.
2024-02-15 02:56:40
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