I don't like this answer. How much more must one sacrifice. As a child and as an adult as well. Who will sacrifice anything for me?
2024-06-14 16:05:50
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Sashafaray11 :
I tried that & it’s absolutely exhausting bc I could never depend on her as a grandmother & mother. I got nothing in return. I couldn’t lean on her bc of her wounds.
2024-06-10 21:17:11
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zee :
that's how you heal her..
2024-06-10 17:56:45
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Farmlife adventures :
What if the mother is a poison in your life? You can understand her trauma in order to forgive, but boundaries are the best thing you could do for yourself.
2024-06-10 14:25:09
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Susan :
Nope, I don’t have the heart or capacity to do that, especially if she couldn’t do it for me.
2024-06-10 19:51:18
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YourFavHouseBunny :
What if it never stops/we are coming from a place of lack from not being mothered ourselves?
2024-09-03 11:23:56
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نور🦋 :
but isn't I'm the one who needed her love and attention in the first place.
2024-06-10 14:20:07
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Sarina A :
I love my mom but. I’ve been her emotional support from a very young age and in return couldn’t emotionally support my self yeah I’m not doing that
2024-07-05 20:22:34
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🌺Milly_Vanilly🌺 :
no.. because that love and energie belongs to my own kids
2024-06-16 19:09:45
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M :
it’s not rewarding, it’s just really draining having to mother your own mom. It also ruined my relationship with her because i can just never lean on her and she never made the effort to try and heal
2024-07-07 20:54:08
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Paris :
I needed love and support after all the hurt she put me through. She knows what it’s like yet repeated the cycle. I prefer to disattach from her with love and indifference 🫶🏻
2024-06-10 16:34:07
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Neeha :
do I really have to choose between her healing and my healing? because darling I'm so tired and exhausted. Don't I deserve her love as well?
2024-06-12 16:33:34
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Luminous Sunflower :
Did that for 34 years, and she was my biggest bully. you can only do so much. I mourn now the lost of a child not my mother.
2024-06-11 02:43:14
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Claudia Sanchez :
Agreed, however it’s exhausting when we have our wounds as well… these days I love her for who she is but refuse to carry her burdens.
2024-07-02 15:14:16
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Wear.his.word :
The more I do this, it’s just hurtful. It’s like the more I do this the more intense her negative energy feels. It’s not my duty to mend. I love her always but she has her own work to do.
2024-08-28 20:26:14
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𝕽𝖚𝖖𝖎𝖆 ༻ :
I used to do this. I had to learn
2024-12-21 21:24:01
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Leticia :
Did all of this and she still didn’t change. She takes the sympathy and love for granted it’s draining and there is no end in sight . No rewards . I will choose myself and my family first always
2024-07-23 21:15:02
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narma :
That’s how you heal her, who am I going to rely upon to get me myself healed from this. Not to sound selfish but how ?
2024-07-08 21:57:57
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Mbalenhle Mkhwanazi :
This answer should have ended with the DON’T
2024-08-21 03:13:32
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Sharmin AA🇵🇸 :
hey I do this ,I m learning to do this 🌹🌹I feel like I m giving her something to make her happy
2024-08-02 19:44:58
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