@coach.ryan0: What avoidants say vs what they really mean (especially dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants that lean heavily dismissive) #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #attachmentstyle #emotionallyunavailaible #breakup #discard #discarded #divorce #heartbroken #blindsided #Relationship #dating #situationship #relationshipcoach #attachmentwounds
When anxious gets hurt enough, they’ll turn into avoidants.
2024-12-17 06:08:00
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💛 :
What if you had multiple outbursts on them during pregnancy because of their avoidance...it caused so much stress on me i miscarried. Is it likely he will come back???
2025-03-13 15:38:25
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j.angelique_ :
May this love never ever find me again 🫶🏽
2024-12-18 18:02:48
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shelbydawn :
wish he could see himself through my eyes
2024-12-17 01:44:46
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Chinchillaswag :
Dismissive avoidants just seem like narcissism without malice or manipulation.
2024-12-17 03:17:12
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abboogie :
it hurts so bad because you just wanna love them and help them heal & live a great life with them but they push you away and/or treat you horribly.
2024-12-18 23:39:50
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mehegan :
😔 put this on my ex’s FYP not mine
2024-12-17 14:48:29
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🧛🏻♀️ :
don’t people understand that nobody wants to be avoidant. people have went through things to become this way. it’s hard dealing with it too.
2025-01-24 15:22:47
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Noelle :
There is hope y’all. My man is an avoidant and I promise there’s hope
2025-01-22 08:53:49
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LSarah954 :
Please somebody send this to him for me
2024-12-17 11:34:23
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Kat :
I'm completely confused by what they say AND what they mean. I was just broken up with by an avoidant & was blindsided. He said all the right things, he didn't mean any of them. So cruel & unfair 😢
2024-12-17 11:31:06
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LinzyD21 :
In trying to show him love and understanding I think I’ve just enabled him. He still gets access to me and validation from me with zero expectations. 💔
2024-12-17 01:55:54
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Ariana :
Thank you for this. Currently going through it now and I just want to tell him I hear him and will love him through it
2024-12-16 22:26:54
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Lindsay Ruth :
You’ve done it again!!! You’ve spelled out this type of person with such precision.
2024-12-16 22:03:09
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ACM :
First you are everything. You are the perfect woman. They are emotional avaiable. They put you on a pedestal. Next thing sabotage The relationship. And ghost you. Your healthy love makes them anxious.
2024-12-18 07:38:54
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Martina🇮🇨 :
he broke up with me and now he is going to therapy bc he realised when I told him he has some issues. now he wants me to wait for a couple of months into therapy to see if he will change his mind +
2025-01-30 12:02:28
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CrimePalette :
The anxious/avoidant dynamic is incredibly painful. 💔 I encourage all of us to embark on a journey of healing. Wherever that takes us in the end (with or without them) we’re gonna be okay if we heal.
2024-12-17 04:12:49
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Vin :
hearing this all said out loud really hammers home how ridiculous this all is
2024-12-25 15:12:26
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Jamie :
My ex said all of these. It was exhausting bc all I wanted to do was love him.
2024-12-17 23:38:28
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💋CARMELLA💋 :
“Can’t we just be friends”, this resonates. How do I answer this??? it’s spot on with what I’ve been dealing with on and off for three years. currently left on read for 4 days now, and I have not reached out, which is typically what I do
2024-12-19 15:02:16
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Rachel Mallory :
I heard most of these and walked away two weeks ago. I miss him but I didn’t know where I stood and he couldn’t reassure me. I’m second guessing myself.
2024-12-17 06:43:21
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Liv Greeley :
Told me I was the best person he's ever been with but I'm not the one. We were talking about buying a house 🙃
2024-12-17 01:57:41
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Kell :
And they show up as posers..Mr. Wonderful and then can’t keep it up..Architects of their own design
2024-12-18 03:43:15
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tatted_red_head_37 :
You literally just said verbatim what she said to me... every single scenario 🥺
2024-12-16 22:24:00
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