@gothmarilyn: People will say they understand autism and then look at you like youre insane when you show textbook autistic traits ๐ค #autism #autismspectrumdisorder #asd #autismawareness
well, girl, as an autistic person who struggles with all of that... it's not a competition. It's a SPECTRUM for a reason, just because you think you've got it worse doesn't mean you should get special treatment
2025-06-18 20:13:14
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Doodlebakes :
Iโve learned to mask it all, just cause you donโt see it doesnโt mean they donโt struggle with it. Letโs not invalidate others!
2025-05-27 23:12:44
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madeleine :
iโm sorry what?
2025-06-02 15:08:08
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Hellu-Sky :
I'm sorry but the spectrum concept is real and important because autistic people can struggles with several different things, have several different symptoms and need help at very different level. I'm sorry if you feel invalidated by people who have a low support need, but trust me that if they're on the spectrum they DO struggle with something, maybe they just don't share, don't know or mask a lot. I'm diagnosed with level 1 and I've been struggling with basic chores and social cues since I was a kid, I have sensory issues and meldowns and I get overtimulated very easily, but I still was diagnosed as a teen because I've been high masking my whole childood without even knowing. I also have a level 3 sister and a level 2 cousin and they both got diagnosed at a young age because they had an higher support need, but we share a lot of traits and symptoms, just at "different levels". So, again, I'm sorry for your situation but the spectrum concept is really important in autism and no one should feel invalidated by someone else's experience because we're all different people who function in different ways from each other just like everyone else.
2025-06-12 22:40:04
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jorts :
me when I want attention
2025-06-13 18:10:46
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Diane Sherrill :
I donโt really have sensory issues, no, but hopefully the fact that I havenโt made a friend since elementary school and I get treated worse by default without ever knowing what Iโm doing wrong is โbad enoughโ for you
2025-05-27 22:17:20
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๐ผ๐ฟZizi๐ง๐ซง :
But whatโs wrong with saying โIโm autistic too โ if they are autistic
2025-07-28 12:47:55
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ใจใใฒใ :
guess the country
2025-07-28 17:10:30
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elissa ๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ :
Hmmm
2025-07-30 18:57:48
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Rose Hall :
Itโs definitely being thrown around so much more now than Iโve ever heard it before. People also love to diagnose themselves and say they have something with no real diagnosis ๐. Itโs like the new โcuteโ or โquirkyโ thing is to be โon the spectrumโ ๐๐๐. SMH.
2025-05-27 20:24:47
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emosaker :
I hate the "it's a spectrum" thing, like PLEASE make new names for different parts of the spectrum. I have an autism diagnosis, but I don't have sensory issues, meltdowns, nor overstimulation. So whenever I seek therapy, therapist assume I am stereotypical autist and tell me to "avoid bright lights" or "go rest when you feel overwhelmed". Like???
2025-06-21 23:17:51
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TN Williams RX Bottle Cap :
You said it aloud and Iโm glad. Iโm struggling too
2025-05-27 20:20:30
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Ayukina :
I'm at the "lighter end" of the spectrum, while also having ADHD. And while some experiences can be similar I can't compare my struggles to the people on the "other end" of the spectrum. It may be one spectrum but how it impacts the individual is so different. Making it a spectrum has definitely some pros but just as many cons. To raise awareness for the whole spectrum is very hard.
2025-06-03 15:04:31
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Jillybean9561 :
I am unmasking and screaming from the mountain tops.....people better start listening....hugs friend
2025-05-27 23:09:58
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๐ป๐๐ .ยฐโ๐ฅ๐ชเผปโ :
OK so this is how it works : autism is a spectrum, but it still has criteria. To put it simply : there's as many cases of autism as there are AUTISTIC PERSONS. It doesn't mean "Oh everyone is one the spectrum, it's a spectrum!".
2025-06-21 09:40:15
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๐ฆ๐คDamien๐๐ฆ :
Some girl that I thought was cool was talking about how she was sooo autistic and said oh I am to and I just recently realized she was making a jokeโฆ. Cool
2025-07-26 21:39:58
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a_elle_a :
Some people can use a label as a way to avoid accountability. And some people may be very high masking and donโt show people their struggles. Itโs hard to differentiate between the two.
2025-05-27 22:25:16
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mitchikotohatchinโโ .โฆ :
huh i just learnt to mask but it still mentally damages me in other ways
2025-06-29 11:51:40
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shisama08 :
I feel like when people hear spectrum they don't think of the radar chart they don't fully grasp the complexity autism has nor how disabling it can be.
2025-05-27 21:10:44
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Mars || saw SKZ 29/06/2025 :
everyones mad but no i hear you. im so sick of people who are level 1 speaking for the ENTIRE community. like no they shouldnt be silenced but they shouldnt be ALL we hear
Girl please donโt talk if you donโt know what your talking about, I was that person once itโs called masking you get so good at pretending you learn to lie to your self, it almost killed me
2025-06-09 12:55:14
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TJ :
โค๏ธ
2025-07-22 00:37:50
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