spicycounselor
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Cody :
I tried monogamy and it didn't work for me🥰
2025-10-14 05:56:17
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Camatkara :
The maturity needed to really live non-monogamy is rare.
2025-10-13 18:54:02
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Tom Foolery :
Ive been reading and listening to the CNM literature. It’s not for me, but I could see how in my younger days with less than meaningful relationships, I could have been ok with sharing.
2025-11-12 19:48:25
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Tigardswan 💜💜💜💜 :
nonmonogamy was my reality and I started healing
2025-10-29 02:44:41
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Betty 🍑✨ :
Most monogamous relationships don’t work yet people don’t blame the entire system 😒
2025-10-15 18:17:00
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Dhorannis :
Technically, my girlriend and I have a non-monogamous relationship. Factually, we are simply too tired 😂
2025-10-14 20:44:24
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Colleen Ruth :
if we cant manage a dyad healthfully (meaning conflict resolution and healthy repair) we cant manage a triade or more...adding more people only creates more complexity. so until you can master 2...you cant master more than 2
2025-10-14 21:57:30
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Emily Chinery :
How do I get sessions with you?!?!?!
2025-10-16 22:13:30
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Leyla :
I have many poly friends and acquaintances and am also poly. I have honestly never met anyone off of social media who is not in toxic relationships.
2025-10-15 17:06:08
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user3978568540294 :
Way too fast.
2025-10-14 11:13:43
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Vanavor Hithaerben :
1)Yes 2) No 3)No 4) N/A 5) eventually 6) eventually, after educating myself and therapy for unrelated challenges
2025-10-16 22:25:27
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Mak :
How do you find a therapist for this type of relationship
2025-10-17 01:16:38
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S_R_As :
tried it and found it to be like an emotional roller coaster. Believe in the concept and
2025-10-16 11:15:00
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UnderTheBigLight :
We tried it but went way too fast and got involved with another couple where the male was a narcissist and he ended up manipulating my wife into thinking I was a problem and we almost lost our marriage because of it.
2025-10-14 19:32:57
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altycultykittykat 🖤🗡🩸🐾🥀 :
monogamy is not for everyone either nor does it work for everyone somehow we can't seem to understand that though as a society that it goes BOTH ways 💀
2025-10-14 20:55:21
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Gray :
I did all the work and did all the things. My partner didn’t. Turns out I’m just not polyamorous. And also they weren’t a good partner.
2025-11-04 19:21:25
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Aaron Smith :
speed and jumping in thw deep end is always my word of caution for anyone starting out asking for help. for all thoae reasons and more
2025-10-14 20:09:52
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RayRay :
We been monogamous for 26 yrs and jumped right into the Lifestyle with full swap. 4 yrs now ENM. We are not very active but enjoy our friendships every now and then.
2025-10-14 23:43:21
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Ashlee Nicole-Narrator :
Went way too fast, didn’t communicate, and didn’t figure out jealousy. We’re working on it now 😂
2025-10-14 20:17:26
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LookThatUpFirst :
Done the work first, Wife has a solid Bf, we communicate constantly and find solutions. dealing with the fight or flight and other big feelings is VERY challenging, and it’s hard as a guy to get dates, even harder if your a bigger guy. OH, and never discuss feelings when tired or in pain.
2025-10-13 19:38:05
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MrsJingleJangle :
I think lots of people struggle just trying to manage one relationship well. My husband and I have been married 12 years and about 4 years ago we tried polyamory. He is bi and I am painfully straight. But I think people also have unrealistic expectations going in. Like your looking for a unicorn to fit into your well established family. Then we tried more open but one had more luck then the other and jealousy was a huge issue. So, we took a long break, many years infact and who knows if we will reopen again or not. We will see! 💚
2025-11-20 15:11:49
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Amon’s Feeder :
Non manogamy sounds exhausting like on paper it sounds great but in practice yeah pass. I have no issues if it works for other people but damn the constant having to get used to this new person definitely not for me
2025-10-15 07:32:25
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Maya Èlen 🏳️⚧️ :
I absolutely agree it's not for everyone. I'm very happy as part of a Polycule right now BUT I got my rules too that I follow so it stays that way
2025-10-14 11:34:18
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Danny Panzella-Velez :
excellent questions
2025-10-13 18:37:17
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Skenatoc :
We were casual until we weren't, and then spent a year talking if through before opening up again, a mutual decision. With therapy. married in 2010, going strong, still polyam.
2025-10-28 06:52:47
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